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help? i dont know what to do

I'm in my 5th week with baby number 2 but I don't know if I should have the baby because it will have a different dad than my first and I'm not in the place to have another. What do I do?
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I've had an abortion. And I would never do it again. It f****d with me mentally AND physically. They left some of the baby in me and i bled for 6 months. Its upto you but if you have any questions feel free to inbox me x
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Dnt feel bad I am in the same situation but he has two choose do for his child or child support will take from him n he know I dnt like the gov system
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I just think it helps to have some compassion for someone going through a difficult time.  Even if someone makes a choice that is different than you would, they still deserve respect and empathy.  

anyway, I wish the best to the poster and sorry you are in this difficult position.  You appear quite articulate and smart and I am guessing you have a bright future ahead.  Stay in school and achieve your dreams.  peace
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Alright! Well you learn something new everyday!!!! Hormones really get to a pregnant woman sorry
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Jackied don't let these women get you down. You are obviously very responsible for weighing all of your options out. I fully agree with specialmom. I wish you the best of luck in whatever choice you deem best!
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Everyone will have their opinions , unfortunately you won't like some. You need to do what's best for you right now. Focus on your daughter, if you decide to abort its your choice & no one else's here.
Life is a struggle, it tests you. In the future when you're more stable financially you can expand your family. You're only young & I understand its hard. A lot of us struggle. I think the majority of people here have what THEY would do in your situation, bit they're not you. You & you alone make the final decision.
Best of luck.
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