help? i dont know what to do

[jackied1171]

I'm in my 5th week with baby number 2 but I don't know if I should have the baby because it will have a different dad than my first and I'm not in the place to have another. What do I do?

[Teenmomandproud]

You should talk to the father about adoption because in my opinion it would be better to give a woman a chance to be a mother or a gay couple a chance to be parents..it would also take away guilt because you gave the baby a chance at life instead of taking its life away

[c0rruptted]

You have 8 m

[jackied1171]

I won't feel guilty about anything. There's no need in feeling guilty. If someone wants to adopt, there's thousands of children in foster care that would love to be adopted. I'm not going to add another child to the system.

[c0rruptted]

You have 8 months to prepare and get used to the idea of looking after your 2nd child. If you wanted an abortian you would have done it already. Yet.. You posted on this forum asking for help and asking people what you should do. So I think it's obvious you don't want an abortian. You wanted people to make you feel better about the decision to keep your baby even though you know it'll be hard. :)

[Tas218]

This is actually something I've been thinking about.  I had my daughter 6 weeks ago.  I've had unprotected sex with my boyfriend but he didn't come because we stopped.  It scares me to think about having a second baby.  I'm 19 and can barley support my daughter.  If I were to get pregnant again, unfortunately I'd have to get an abortion.   How old is your first child?

[Teenmomandproud]

At least the kid was given a chance to live but if you won't feel guilty then go through with the abortion process..don't ask what you should do if you have your mind set already..