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last convo with babydaddy
So tomorrow is the day that my ex's cousin set up for me to get an abortion but my whole family is against it so instead of my sister taking us to my appointment she is going to take him to her house so we can actually talk about the baby without him being pressured by being near his family ... is it bad that I am agreeing to this ? :( I don't want to get an abortion but I really just want him to understand that I don't want an abortion :(am i a bad pperson?
I'm erally confused why you'd go about it this way? He's probably going to be upset you lied. Especially about something this big. Why not just call him and let him know you weren't getting one and he'd just have to deal with it and make a choice to be there or not?? Either way it's ultimately your choice and i can't see something like this making him very happy or bring you any closer when he's been lied to and put in an undoubtedly awkward situation of being forced to sit and talk with your family..... just my opinion, sorry if it seems harsh.
An i mean "the right thing" by taking him away from his comfort Zone to talk. Not the abortion. That's just silly to me that u would consider or even lie about having it done. I couldn't imagine doing that EVER
Honey let me tell ya something. My old mans family, they have hated me from day one. Although they are happy about the baby for his sake, they despise me! As in HATE MY GUTS. Because I'm white, bc I'm a big girl, just simple things but, I think ur doin the right thing girl.
Yea ... im stealing him to go talk to my family lol idk if it makes sense? The "-abortion appointment" is all a lie....? Its just the only way to get him to come with me alone
I had an abortion 10 years ago. And as the girl says it messes with your mind. My ex made me do it. I was young and dumb. I never forgave my self. I thought God would punish me and never let me have kids again. However it was a good decision because I was young and father was a complete shitbag. I would have been so miserable if I had to deal with him and my life would have taken a complete different turn. So what I'm trying to say dont let anyone influence you. His family or yours. Only you know what kind of things you want out of life and what you can deal with. Take your time and think things through. Don't worry what anybody's going to say or think.
So youre taking youre family to go talk to him but he doesnt know it yet? Is that the plan? Im trying to be on the same page lol
I was talked into an abortion by my ex around 4years ago and regret it till this day. It's messes with your mind. Only do it if YOU want to. A baby is a blessing, just remember that.
Im not getting the abortion but is it bad that im using a pretend appointment so my family can actually for once talk too him?
Don't let anybody talk you into am abortion, that's a permanent personal choice. Nobody can make that decision for you. If after talking to the baby daddy and he says that's what he wants and he won't be there for you, and if you have thought about the financial /personal repercussions this will have for you, them you can make your decision. But it has to be the right decision for you. Raising a baby is hard, and even harder when you're doing it alone, so it has to be a lifelong decision that you feel comfortable/can live with. All the best :)
Youre not necessarily a bad person but its bad that you would do it bc of him.. its your choice.. if you wanna keep your baby keep him or her.. youre specially lucky to actually have your family's support
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