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Can I get pregnant from being fingerd

It was on Sunday morning...Me and my boyfriend started kissing and he took out his *** out and I touched it. He asked to touch my private parts and at first I didn't want him to but eventually I agreed he rubbed my private parts and he insisted on getting deeper...he started fingering me and I felt nervous and special at the same time I didn't want him to stop...he opened a hole on my pants because I didn't want him to see me naked and he pushed his *** inside my vagina with my pants on I was aware of the risk and told him to stop after about 3 minutes and he did. I'm now bloated,have cramps and funny sounds in my stomach.im only eighteen years and I'm writing my final exams i can't study because I'm stressed and I've been having suicidal thoughts because I can't bear the thought of disappointing my parents...its only been 10 days after we got intimate and im always crying thinking that I'm pregnant...it was my first time doing it and I'm scared please help me
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134578 tn?1693250592
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There is a difference in what the British call "pants" and what Americans call "pants." You said, "he opened a hole on my pants because I didn't want him to see me naked," I assume the pants in that part of the sentence are your trousers? (Or are you talking about underpants?) Then you said "and he pushed his *** inside my vagina with my pants on," I assume that there, you are talking about your underpants? So, basically, the penis didn't go into any hole he "opened in your pants" except maybe into the fly of your jeans?

As Curfew says, if there is cloth between you, such ask he pushed his *** into you with your underpants still between you, it is extremely unlikely this got you pregnant. Also, do you know that you only ovulate once a month (and the egg only lives about a day?) If the event didn't happen on that day (or within a few days of it, because of how long sperm can live), you wouldn't have gotten pregnant because you had no egg waiting for the sperm.

Anxiety can do everything you are describing. You wouldn't have gotten pregnancy symptoms so soon from something that happened only 10 days ago anyway. When is your period due? Though being stressed can sometimes cause you not to have a period, my guess is that yours will come around the time you expect. Please try not to mess up your finals over this.

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3191940 tn?1447268717
The only realistic way to achieve pregnancy is by inserting a penis into a vagina, directly, without the barrier of clothing or a condom.  I understand that you are scared, but you didn't get pregnant from this event.  Your symptoms really sound like symptoms of anxiety, but they are definitely not symptoms of pregnancy.

Here are some good resources to help you learn more about your body, and preventing pregnancy (and STDs):
https://www.iwannaknow.org/

https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/teens
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