I heard that when you have sex for the first time your hymen may tear and you may bleed and that is something normal. I also Heard that not all women bleed when they tear their hymen and that is also normal.
But then I heard other more radical women saying that if you have sex for the first time, you do not have to bleed at all, by no means, a woman should not bleed at all and if a woman bleeds is because the guy was way too rough on her, but normaly no woman at all should bleed.
So what is the truth, is it normal to bleed or not or a woman never never ever should bleed at all?
Also these women says that the first time pain also should nbot appear at all. I also h ave heard other sources is normal to feel pain or discomfort and that is also normal.
So im confused now. Is it normal to bleed or not and is it normal tp feel pain or not at all?
Does age could make a difference in the lady´s first time? Like a lady in her mid 40´s who lost their virginity at that age?