Try a long soak in the tub. You probably are just bruised.
The hurting constantly when you lie down doesn't sound good. When he fingered you, did he press super hard or perhaps lie on top of you with his full weight and grind against you? If nothing like that, it's hard to imagine the bone being bruised or damaged in any way.
Have you checked with a mirror to look for an infection or inflamed hair follicle, or scratches?