tearing

[smrster]

My boyfriend and I have been have sex. His penis has girth and is bent. I only lost my virginity this summer. Everytime we have sex we have to start really slow (more like start and stop) because I have a small tear at the entrance to my vagina (closest towards me bum). We only have sex once a week because of it. We use lube, but it doesn't make it any easier. It seems to heal after a few days, it no longer hurts when I touch it or anything. Does anybody have any advice? Is it because I'm only just starting to have sex? Do I need to wait longer till I have sex again (not that I want to do that)?

[Westlifelover]

have this and I've been having regular sex for a few years. :( Isorry I can't help, I thought you'd find comfort knowing you're not alone. I develop a similar thing above my clit too. Still trying to work out a pattern of what might be causing it. Sex? Knickers material? Too rough with myself? Going to the toilet? 'm getting sick of it now and am going to see my gp.

[DansLady]

Just wondering if either of you have looked up fissures, I have had them before, as annoying as it is not the end of the world, I wish you peace and good health