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Large female pubic bone.
This was a comment I found and I HAVE EXACTLY THE SAME THING! I need to know how I can correct this! You have no idea the suffering we go through on a day to day basis looking like you have a male part instead of a female anatomy. I don't feel like a complete woman. I cannot wear sexy underwear and don't get me started on what wearing a swimsuit feels like or anything that's tight, so I'm always wearing things that are baggy and I'm soooooooooooooo tired of it. My Gynecologist says it normal, WHAT????????????!!!!!!!!! It's not normal for a female to have a LARGE bone sticking out! Believe me, you would not want to be me....
There has to be a surgical proceedure to reduce the bone there, so we can feel like women again.
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when i started discovering my body as a young girl, i realized something different from everyone elses. my vagina looks really bony. when i lay down flat, my pelvic bone is protruding out. even standing up, i can see a big bump. more than normal from what i have seen. i have been told by friends "oh you have big vagina" and it really bothers me. i am embarrassed to be intimate. i did research but didnt come across anything. i'm 25 now and am still embarrassed to go to a doctor. i dont know what the problem really is. i used to crack my lower back, i dont know if that would do anything to it? but i dont feel any pain or anything. just physically, its very different, bony, and embarrassing from what i see. i've been told by several family members " are you wearing a pad" because its that noticeable. i know that if it was from birth, my mom would notice. because now they tell me things like you have fat, big, vagina. i really need to do something about it, but need to know what? and need to know what the problem really is and what may have caused it? and what kind of doctor i should see. and how i should explain it. please answer my questions asap. i cant take it anymore, and i find it embarrassing to share it w/ anyone else.
There has to be a surgical proceedure to reduce the bone there, so we can feel like women again.
See below...
when i started discovering my body as a young girl, i realized something different from everyone elses. my vagina looks really bony. when i lay down flat, my pelvic bone is protruding out. even standing up, i can see a big bump. more than normal from what i have seen. i have been told by friends "oh you have big vagina" and it really bothers me. i am embarrassed to be intimate. i did research but didnt come across anything. i'm 25 now and am still embarrassed to go to a doctor. i dont know what the problem really is. i used to crack my lower back, i dont know if that would do anything to it? but i dont feel any pain or anything. just physically, its very different, bony, and embarrassing from what i see. i've been told by several family members " are you wearing a pad" because its that noticeable. i know that if it was from birth, my mom would notice. because now they tell me things like you have fat, big, vagina. i really need to do something about it, but need to know what? and need to know what the problem really is and what may have caused it? and what kind of doctor i should see. and how i should explain it. please answer my questions asap. i cant take it anymore, and i find it embarrassing to share it w/ anyone else.
listen ignore every one on this page you are perfectly normal stop listening to all the scientific bull crap they are trying to feed you because most of it you probably dont understand anyways just love your body if it isnt causing you any pain then apparently you are fine it is ok just love your body you are normal and many girls have it you are young and you just need to ignore all the perversion.......
I have this problem I'm 14 and all the girls in my class can pull of wearing anything they want,I'm so insecure about this and it's ruining my life,I just rated to notice this when I was 11 and ever since this I have been wear nothing but jeans and maybe leggings sometimes with a really long baggy shirt,I don't know what to do about it at all but my mom said its normal,I really don't think it's normal to have a big bump there ,I'm a model and my modeling agent said if I get this taken care of before I'm 18 I could be a Victoria secret model :'(
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+Blueeyes1407 Oh girl please don't listen to that modeling agent at all. He rather might be trying to getting you into talking about your private part trying to get intimate. Please don't take his word for it and do something stupid to your beautiful thing. It is amazing thing boys will secretly rejoice. Even super models proudly display the shape of it these days, don't destroy it.
hi anandi I am from India as well :) I have the same kind of pubis http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mons_pubis .. my cousin bro raised his eyebrows staring at that mound while i was trying my new jeans.. my cousin sis also thot i was having my menstrual cycles and i was wearing a pad.. its so embarassing!!!
I am 23 now and i feel the bump is reducing.. I was fat as a child and slimmed down extremely in the past 3-4 years, but my pelvis seemed equally fat always.. i hav gained a lil weight recently which is my ideal body weight, i feel the bump is reducing. Although its mor of a fat than just bone but when i press my finger to feel the bone, i feel the bone too is a protruding slightly! there are pelvic exersises in youtube but i m not sure whthr it ll help...
I m very conscious about my body and i was literally hurt wen i shocked my boyfriend wid it.. but he says he loves my body and i knw he means it! its all about love and not just the appearance!! he was shocked becos he had never seen a naked gal other than in porn movies, we both were virgins when i met him at the age of 21(this is quite common in India) :) :) we are the oly sexual partners to each other and we are soon gonna be married so i dnt think anybody else ll ever see it :) lols :D as long as my boyfriend loves it i m okay wid it.. rest can be hidden wid appropriate clothing!!
I am 23 now and i feel the bump is reducing.. I was fat as a child and slimmed down extremely in the past 3-4 years, but my pelvis seemed equally fat always.. i hav gained a lil weight recently which is my ideal body weight, i feel the bump is reducing. Although its mor of a fat than just bone but when i press my finger to feel the bone, i feel the bone too is a protruding slightly! there are pelvic exersises in youtube but i m not sure whthr it ll help...
I m very conscious about my body and i was literally hurt wen i shocked my boyfriend wid it.. but he says he loves my body and i knw he means it! its all about love and not just the appearance!! he was shocked becos he had never seen a naked gal other than in porn movies, we both were virgins when i met him at the age of 21(this is quite common in India) :) :) we are the oly sexual partners to each other and we are soon gonna be married so i dnt think anybody else ll ever see it :) lols :D as long as my boyfriend loves it i m okay wid it.. rest can be hidden wid appropriate clothing!!
Gosh this is so reassuring to find out that so many other ladies deal with this. I've had this for as long as I can remember, and am now in my 30's. Nobody has ever commented on it (to my face!) but it is very noticeable. I feel insecure wearing a bathing suit, leggings, jeans, jogging pants, some skirts...
I was at an adult gymnastics class the other day and was embarrassed even doing a bridge or laying on my back. It's ridiculous.
And, no offence to the guys who have posted, I could care less if guys find this attractive or not. Imagine if, as a man, you had a tiny penis and women found this attractive. That probably wouldn't change how you AS A MAN felt about it. It feels (to me) very unfeminine, and how many women really want to feel like they have a package down there?
It's been a great last hour reading through all of these comments and finding out that I'm not alone. I've hesitated to look this up for years, afraid that there would be nothing to find out.
I was at an adult gymnastics class the other day and was embarrassed even doing a bridge or laying on my back. It's ridiculous.
And, no offence to the guys who have posted, I could care less if guys find this attractive or not. Imagine if, as a man, you had a tiny penis and women found this attractive. That probably wouldn't change how you AS A MAN felt about it. It feels (to me) very unfeminine, and how many women really want to feel like they have a package down there?
It's been a great last hour reading through all of these comments and finding out that I'm not alone. I've hesitated to look this up for years, afraid that there would be nothing to find out.
Hi, ive just read what you have put, and im pretty much the same. I've been self conscious about mine since i started getting sexually active. But its weird to think that i would never of thought about it if i never went that extra step with that one boy.
Although i have other body insecurities, mainly my stomach- that is the main one that stops me from going that extra step, again. (i've only ever been with one person, and ruined numerous relationships because i cant bring myself round to do it again, due to the near extinct self confidence).
Anyway, back to the point i commented for, i was thinking why don't you bring up your thought about the lipo to whoever it is that does your smear test? and get their opinion on what to do.
Sammy
Although i have other body insecurities, mainly my stomach- that is the main one that stops me from going that extra step, again. (i've only ever been with one person, and ruined numerous relationships because i cant bring myself round to do it again, due to the near extinct self confidence).
Anyway, back to the point i commented for, i was thinking why don't you bring up your thought about the lipo to whoever it is that does your smear test? and get their opinion on what to do.
Sammy
yup anandi, i am also an indian lady, of 26 years of age, unmarried, i too have the same prob.i always wonder will that be a problem in havng sex,or having a baby? can u help me out? its time for me to get married,, but m not so happy as i fear this. as that protudes out while wearing slex or leggins. i cant let my boyfrnd sleep on my lap as i fear he will come to know about my prob.
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