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Misscariage
Hello I recently had a misscarriage just 6 weeks pregnant. I dont need any surgery or anything. But me and my fiace want to try again how soon are we gonna be able too. Thanks
I didn't mean to say don' listen to your doctor! There could be scar tissue or something that needs to heal. Also, wait till you are married. You mentioned Fiance'... It is hard enough just being married and getting to know each other as a married couple. What's the hurry? I remember all I wanted to do was be a mother but I kind of wish that I had waited a little longer to be a better mommy to my son. It seems we grew up together and I was 23! When I had my daughter at 30, I was much more prepared to be a good mom. So many young people don't have the patience and don't understand how much work it is for the rest of their lives. (I am still a mommy no matter how old they get) It really pays to be mature enough to know your own values, let alone teach them to another little soul.
I agree with Kim! You are very fertile. Things like this seem to cause us to be extra fertile for some reason. When I got pregnant with my daugter 7 years later, I got my IUD removed because I had heard that it was like having a self induced abortion! So I didn't know that... I was so upset about that and I had been really thinking about wanting another baby. I kind of faked pains and went to ER to get it out. Waited just a few days and was pregnant that month! I was a little worried because I didn't wait like was recommended but I am soo glad I didn't because it gave me my precious baby girl who is now 20!! She is my best friend! I always joked about how I got pregnant. I just said we used the same soap and it happened that fast because it really happened that fast! By the way any young chicklens reading this... You CAN'T get pregnant by using the same soap. LOL.
but i do suggest thinking about waiting. you two look fairly young and you two should have your goals set and in motion and get married first. babys are very taxing and very taxing on your relationship as well
I just came from the doctor and I am not gonna be able to try to have a baby till 3 months pass im disapponited. But i guess its for the best
Thanks so much im just worried and depressed because I been in the ER all day long and me and my fiance want to try again and pray it will go good. We just want a baby soo bad to spoil and love with all out hearts
Whoops~ I just reread what I wrote...
I had a misscarriage in May and was pregnant again in September and had my son in June! I just wanted to clarify!!
I had a misscarriage in May and was pregnant again in September and had my son in June! I just wanted to clarify!!
30 years ago I had a misscarriage and I too was about 6 weeks along. I didn't need surgery. (Though I have 2 kids, I had a misscarriage about 12 years ago that did require surgery but I was over 4 months along)
Anyway, I have only had 2 misscarriages in my life and I think people used to have a lot more without knowing but because of all of the medical knowledge and our own awareness of our bodies we are less ignorant and know.
To answer your question. I had a misscarriage in May and was pregnant in June and he will be 28 this year! I had his sister 7 years later who will be 21 next year! (Same dad.)
But I sooo remember all of the questions I had and wondering why etc... As I said, I think it happens a lot more than we think but those of us who are more aware just know.
Don't worry! You will be writing back telling me someday that you just had a boy or a girl! It will happen. Don't stress! I started trying two months after my misscarriage and it took a few months but it happened! I envy you!!! I am just now hitting menopause so enjoy this time... even though it is full of questions and worries~ you will realize that they really are the good old days! I wish I had someone to tell me that after my first misscarriage because life flies by so fast! Today you are planning your family and tomorrow you will be sitting in your empty nest and wondering where the time went! Soooo... E-N-J-O-Y!
Anyway, I have only had 2 misscarriages in my life and I think people used to have a lot more without knowing but because of all of the medical knowledge and our own awareness of our bodies we are less ignorant and know.
To answer your question. I had a misscarriage in May and was pregnant in June and he will be 28 this year! I had his sister 7 years later who will be 21 next year! (Same dad.)
But I sooo remember all of the questions I had and wondering why etc... As I said, I think it happens a lot more than we think but those of us who are more aware just know.
Don't worry! You will be writing back telling me someday that you just had a boy or a girl! It will happen. Don't stress! I started trying two months after my misscarriage and it took a few months but it happened! I envy you!!! I am just now hitting menopause so enjoy this time... even though it is full of questions and worries~ you will realize that they really are the good old days! I wish I had someone to tell me that after my first misscarriage because life flies by so fast! Today you are planning your family and tomorrow you will be sitting in your empty nest and wondering where the time went! Soooo... E-N-J-O-Y!
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