Need help to know what is wrong

[funbabe16]

I am 13 years old and have recently had sex for the first time. My bf and I did it last November 6 but all I could let him do was get in make about 3 movements and then pull out because it was too painful and he said I was really tight so he couldn't do much anyhow. Now I was a little later and heavier during my last period around October 24 and should have gotten my next one around November 24 but i haven't. But today (December 2)  I started bleeding only it is a very light flow. I am very worried and need help/advice. I have looked up all the signs of early pregnancy symptoms and I don't have any.

[funbabe16]

Well thanks. You were right and it turned to a full period. And I don't know what I was thinking by even trying to have sex but I do realize that I don't actually want to yet.

[1stBaby22]

with how young you are your body hasnt developed a regular system with having your period... it sounds like the only thing that is wrong is a hormone imbalance just take it easy and dont worry too much about it.. be careful and if you choose to have sex and worry about pregnancy than make him wear a condom! hope you feel better

[AnnieBrooke]

Well, you can get a pregnancy test at the Dollar Store and test.  Possibly the period that began today will continue and become a full period, in which case you've dodged a bullet, but until you are sure you're not pregnant, you can't really relax.  Sweetheart, do you really want to be having sex at 13?  That is really rushing your life, when maybe you would regret later that you didn't have that last little bit of just being a kid having fun.

[funbabe16]

Oh and the past couple of days before i started the light bleeding I have been slightly cramping which is normal for me before and during my period. And also when my bf and I tried to have sex he did not release in me at all that we are aware of.