I don't know how to feel right now. I'm 28 years old... I've always had normal cycle, lasted 5 days... clockwork. Well I've been having unprotected sex with my boyfriend since April when we decided we were ready to start trying. My May period was 4 days late and only lasted 3 days. It was also very light. I wanted to hold off on testing before I had any symptoms... ie. Morning Sickness, missed period, anything really. Then in June my period came 3 days early and only lasted 1 1/2-2 days. Now here I am in July. My "period" started lasted Saturday... two days prior I started having severe lower back pain, then when I started bleeding it just got heavier and heavier. I thought I was going to die! It just wouldn't stop. As the bleeding got heavier my lower back seemed as though it was getting better. Yesterday the bleeding had almost ceased, just light pink. But... my lower back pain has gotten progressively worse. When I showered 5 hours ago, I noticed a couple small blood clots, and this small gray chunk looking thing. About an hour ago I started having sporadic tugging in my pelvic area, right side. And the only relief is when I lift my leg. I've been constipated for days but in the last 30 I keep going to the bathroom with the urge to push. I get the pelvic pain really bad, then it stops for a couple seconds to a minute the starts again. My back pain is almost unbareable, if it gets any worse I am going to the ER without insurance I don't care. I can't take anymore pain. Can anyone please tell me they have experienced anything I have explained??? Help!