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SO CONFUSED ABOUT LOVE!

Alright, So me and my boyfriend just had our first anniversary last week, and it was Magical <3 I couldn't ask for a better day. He is everything a girl could hope for. Tall, Dreamy, funny, Mr. Flirts a lot. But....i feel like he is treating me like his toy. If he is not treating me like that, he completely ignores me. At school together we doesn't say a word, and when we talk on MSN, Phone and EVEN IN PERSON, he barely says anything. But i still love him

ANYWAYS, So while on MSN i get a notification saying that someone had added me. I accepted and realized that it was my long lost friend Nick :P He is EXACTLY like me in everyway...except for the fact that he is male. Tall, Handsome, talented, funny, lots to talk about, exciting, sexy. He is just great! I have never met  a guy better than he. He and i had some conversations...one thing led to another, and he got camming. He then said that he loved me more the world itself.... funny thing is.... he ment it

Turns out I like him too
I don't know what to do anymore :(

Any answers?
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ahhh teenage drama. you're 14...boys will come and go. if the boy you're "dating' doesn't appreciate you...date the old friend. you're too young to be in a "committed relationship". have fun and explore the world of dating (minus the sex....if you are having sex i hope you're on b/c and using condoms...which to date DOES NOT mean you have to have sex. it's amazing how many teenagers think love=sex or dating = sex.) it takes time to find the "right" one and at 14...hormones are raging and what you think is love could really just be lust.
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It sounds like the boy you are with can't truely love you if he only likes talking to you in person. He should always want the world to know your his girl. It ***** but some guys are just like that.This nick kid sounds like a sweetheart and sounds like he really cares about you, but you cant love someone "more than the world itself" after and hour or two of catching up. That stuff needs time. The best advice I can give you is to truly follow your heart and see who would treat you how you to deserve to be treated. I hope everything works out :)
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