I have been having the same issue..... it take my bf a while to get in me.... and when he finally gets in me everything is fine... no pain no nothin and i get loose, but as soon as he takes it out, and tries to put it back in.. im tight again.......... i have no troubles with fingering, or anything.... but as soon as my bf tries putting it inside me... im tight as hell
You will please call me I have an exercise that will make the penis slip right in your vagina easy and smooth.
I also tried with my girlfriend to put my penis inside, but I cannot even start entering as my penis skids off at the entrance, actually her vagina visually looks too tight for my size (which is average though).When fingering I am able to put 1 finger inside, but not for so long as later she hurts.Also when trying 2 fingers she feels pain just at the entrance. I gently suggested that she fingers herself from time to time, but she feels shame..No I'm waiting for the second chance, I think that might be because she is very afraid of getting pregnant no matter if we preserve, instead of fully relaxing at this moment. I am still patient, but I would like to have more chances to try, and after we failed first time she is more pesymistic and less horny which doesn't help and that is what I am afraid of..
Im so glad im not the only one,I was in a relationship for 7 years and sex was a big deal for my bf,however me being too tight didnt help,but we still managed to have sex,however now im in another relationship where hes big,and can only get a third of his penis in!!!! Its so fustrating because i dont like fingering myselfi know sounds weird,what to do!!!!
same here that I can never use a tampon. And recently my boyfriend tries to put finger in as we have been waiting until after marriage to actually do it, but it hurts alot!!! It is so sore he can hardly even get to the entrance even I am so wet. After that, I can hardly be turned on again as it just reminds me of the pain and it worries me alot!! I will try the tennis ball exercise and tries to eat more bananas, see if that helps.
I have the exact same problem, i've tried putting in a tampon ,thinking that maybe it can loosen it up, but it hurts SO much just putting the tip inside.Fingering hurts a lot too, and I tried having sex with my current boyfriend 4 times now and we still cant get it in. It's really painful, and i feel guilty, and i feel like a failure. but he's understanding and patient.
To add to that, im a very nervous and anxious person. Im always tense, its rare when you actually find me relaxed. So its even harder to relax...