No, you didn't make that happen. It's normal for vaginal lips to look like fat lettuce sticking out of a hamburger. (Don't believe the images in porn, all it does is give you a false notion of what real bodies look like and what real, pleasant sex is.) As my husband told me once, if a guy is in the happy position of looking labia in the eye, he is not making aesthetic judgements, he is thinking he is lucky.
Check out Betty Dodson for an eye-popping gallery of normal vaginal lips.
No if they truly love u then it should not matter