LOL I know, I used to die laughing when they would say this.
Adenomyosis usually causes a lot of bleeding and sometimes people with Endo don't have cramping like others do.
I have a hard time inserting a tampon because it feels like my vaginal canal is crooked and yes there were times that it seemed to absorb just the one side however not all the time.
Have you seen a gynecologist?
One tbl spoon a month??? Maybe if we were menstrating mice, lol. I can only wish it was that little.
No I havnt read up on that stuff but Im going to now. I dont have painful periods nor do I have mood swings. I do though go threw a box of 18 give or take, every month.
Do you get painful periods as well? It could be Adenomyosis that you have or Endometriosis. Have you read up on those before. I have Endometriosis and I went through tampons like mad and I used to remember health class and them saying you bleed only 1 tbsp a month!!!! BAHAH ya right.
I have tried every brand and type known to man. It seems as if I have a fork in my vagina, like the tampon gets inserted into one side and I bleeds out the other. I don't think this is possible but who knows.
Hi there and welcome! I'm also in my 40's nearing the late side. And I too am having heavier flow. This is actually normal. I don't really understand the issue with the tampon that you describe ---- that it is not used up but that you have blood passing by it. Have you tried switching brands. maybe go to a 'super plus absorbancy'. I agree that is odd about how the blood flow is not being absorbed by the tampon. Switch brands and tell us if that helps or if the same thing happens. good luck