can i get pregnant if we dried hump and he ejacualted and whiped it off dried?

[becky1107]

I'm in total freak mode, I am a virgin and I don't know if I am pregnant or not.. Me and my boyfriend where dry humping in the car, I had my clothes on and so did he, but he ejaculated on top of my pubic area not so close to my vaginal area, and once he saw he did, which was right away, he whipped it off clean till the spot was clean and dried, and it was not a huge spot smaller then a penny, but I was also wet... I then later on clean my self with germ x where he ejaculated on top of my pants, once we stop at a store. Is there any chance of me getting pregnant I am totally pancaking out. My period is not normal I sometimes get it a month late so I don't know if I am or not please help I don't know how to react it was a first time thing

[PrincessSaturn]

Actually sperm do not die once they hit the air. That is a common myth that a lot of people believe in. Sperm are dead when the ejaculate is completely dry, but do survive a couple of minutes in the air, unless chemicals are poured on them, for example the germ X.

There is absolutely no way to get pregnant through clothing. In fact, unless I was educating wrong all my life, sperms die the second they hut air so you really do not have anything to worry about. Congratulations on still being a virgin by the way. I wish I could hear a lot more girls your age say that!!! For the love of God, wait until you are absolutely, positively, definately sure that you are ready. Sex is not just a physical activity. It includes A LOT of emotions so you need to make sure you are both physically and emotionally ready. Keep it up.

[PrincessSaturn]

Youre welcome sweetie! I'm glad I could help!

[becky1107]

THANK YOU SO MUCH! you have cleared my mind so much, thank you for the help in clearing that virgin part !

[PrincessSaturn]

Also to the person above saying that you are no longer a virgin is completely wrong.


Just to make it clear, you ARE still a virgin if you have not come in contact with a penis down there, in other words sex. Dry humping doesn't count.

[PrincessSaturn]

No, honey, it doesn't matter if you were wet. There is no way to get pregnant through clothing. Noooo way. Sperm are vulnerable and genital contact (penis and vagina touching or penetration of any sort) needs to occur for the sperm to actually survive in the best conditions which is in the cervix. Please don't make yourself worried sick, you're definitely not going to be pregnant.

I would be worried if he ejaculated right on your vagina, both of you being naked.

[becky1107]

dose it matter if I was wet *

[becky1107]

Thank you very much, but it dose it if I was wet either? I am sorry I am just new to these things I am 20 years old but I never though of actually doing none of this till I was married, and we didn't have penetrative sex to even have the though of getting pregnant. please help still worried

[Chima7]

It's not possible to get pregnant through clothing. You're also still a virgin since you didn't have penetrative sex. You don't have anything to worry about. Since you know you have an irregular period, then don't freak out if you don't have a period because that's what is "normal" for someone with an irregular period.

[bajramsha]

But now yr not a virgin cause he pop u n idk if ur pregnant

Good luck tho I remember when I did in the car lol

[becky1107]

Thank you so much I am relief a bit

[PrincessSaturn]

No. The clothes would have to be EXTREMELY saturated in his ejaculate for you to get pregnant. I mean soaked. Sperm aren't that mighty to swim past layers of fabric, past your labia, and into your vagina.