ya it was just right after the second time now its just spotting again so we're just going to wait a while before we do it again just in case
Bleeding after your first time is perfectly normal! In fact, expect it at least the next 1-2 times. Too many times more, and you may want to get checked out, but the first 2-3 total, it's nothing to worry about.
Now, if this bleeding gets heavier rather than getting lighter as the days go on, I'd also go get checked out.