regarding sex

[sakura101]

i got married just 10 days back, i was afraid to hav sex as many of my frnds told tat it will pain while having sex.
we had sex twice and during those 2 times i got bleeding with pain, as i told its paining my partner stopped it.
but i feel lyk he was not happy as i told its paining. i want to make him happy during having sex, so can anyone help me out....

[Perak]

Sakura, First of all I want to Congratulate you on your journey to a new life.

Ooooooooouch.......For sure sex hurts for a few days or ever weeks.
You should go to a drug store and buy a lubrication and use it.
The lubrication makes it smoother. You would not feel the pain.
Buy and try them, the reason it hurts is it is still very tight down there and it is suppose to hurt.

Take it easy and always communicate with your husband.
He should listen and be gentle with you.
All the best.

[Alice56]

Yes, the first few times is painful and there is bleeding those first few times too. Just ask your husband to slow it down. If he eases in gently at first it will help.

[specialmom]

Hi there dear.  Honestly, only the first few times include this pain and bleeding.  I really believe that.  It is good that you are communicating to him how it is feeling---  make sure to continue to do this.  We have a hymen muscle that breaks and things are much better after that.  So please keep trying and be vocal about what feels good and what doesn't.  good luck and congrats on the marriage.  

[acewild]

you should be bleed or in pain that doing you to hard . it will hurt inside badly soon could come a issues . okay he need be nicer to you .