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i am 34 yrs old and got married 6 months aga.. since then we have been trying for a baby but without a positive results.. we have a track of the fertility period but i don't know what causes the failure.. Besides, my breasts pain a lot week ahead of my periods.. is it normal? they are growing bigger in size too.. could fondling be a reason for it? my periods are extremely regular and of 28 days cycle even though i chew tobacco.. can anybody please give a suggestion.
First off it can take a healthy couple up to 18 months to conceive, also there are many things that you can do to TTC (Try To Conceive) for instance you can chart your basal body temp at the same time each day to detect when you will ovulate, check your CM (Cervical Mucus), use OPK's (Ovulation Predictor Test) they also tell you when you ovulate, if you don't want to spend a lot of money on them you can always buy the tests at the dollar store. Also after I had my IUD removed in July 2009 I tried almost everything imaginable, such as keeping my legs up for 30min after baby dancing to make sure that no sperm got out, stayed on the bottom, since I read that if the women's on top more sperm will come out, etc. But after 6 1/2 months of trying and no luck I read about a product called pre-seed found at babyhopes.com, it's suppose to be the only lubricant safe for sperm, and it also helps get the sperm where it needs to go, I thought I might as well get it since I had nothing else to lose, and I was going on 7 months of TTC. So that month I used my OPK's and got a positive one on January 6th, 2010, my husband and I baby danced late that night using the pre-seed, and then early morning of the 7th. I finally got my BFP (Big Fat Positive) on January 19th, 2010, I am now 36 weeks and 3 days pregnant with a healthy baby boy =0) So I recommend this product to EVERYONE, since I really think that this is what gave me my BFP! Well I hope this helps, and good luck!
Thankyou so,uch for your reply.. i am really grateful for your advice.. as asked i am not putting on wait in my limbs , but it feels as if my trunck is growing slowly as well. but growing breasts is a concern.. i will see a Doc as adviced tnahk you again.. bye Sashmita.
Tender breasts before your period sounds like a normal PMS symptom. Not sure why they'd be getting bigger. Are you gaining weight in any other areas, too? If I were you, I'd consider getting a referral to a fertility doctor (AKA reproductive endocrinologist). Normally you're supposed to have been trying for a year, so if you can, just go ahead and tell them you have been trying for a year. The specialist can run tests to see if there's a reason why you haven't had success yet.
As far as chewing tobacco, I'm thinking that if it's advisable to not smoke while trying to conceive, I would think that it would be better to not chew tobacco as well. The nicotine is what you want to avoid. Good luck!
As far as chewing tobacco, I'm thinking that if it's advisable to not smoke while trying to conceive, I would think that it would be better to not chew tobacco as well. The nicotine is what you want to avoid. Good luck!
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