Confused & Scared!

[Justneedinfo_]

So was 'bashing' my boyfriend and when he was about to cuum he done it all over my down below and in scared that it may have gone in. I got a pregnancy test from superdrugs the single one and I'm wondering if it would work and when should I take the test. Bare in mind I don't really record when my period comes but it's the 19th August today and I haven't started my period this month yet? And I had sex around the 6/7 of August aswell?

Can anyone help me please I'm really scared and idk what I'll do if I was to be pregnant I'm against abortion and don't think I could do that or my boyfriend. Thanks

[specialmom]

Hi there.  for clarification, it does indeed require penetrative sex in order to conceive.  Sperm 'near' the vagina is not going to make a woman pregnant.  Sperm dies rather rapidly when exposed to air as well as sperm moves in the fluid which has to be DIRECTED.  Sperm do not have little brains thinking of "hm, where is that vagina, I need to find that vagina and go on up in there  . . .".  Pre ejaculate during intercourse is less directed but already in the vaginal cavity.  

I urge women to speak to their doctors about this but it does require penetration with a penis in your vagina to get pregnant.  

Luck to the poster.  

[Kifayat]

It's mean 13 days gone from day u had sex. You must remember last period date.  If those date had gone than you are pregnant. Now it is your will and wish whether you want remain pregnant or take pills for wash off.

[specialmom]

In re reading your post, did you have intercourse?  If YES< then you have risked pregnancy.  You SHOULD track your cycle.  If you are sexually active, you need to be grown up and responsible about these things.  Wait three weeks after the sexual encounter and test then if you really have no idea when you are due for a period.  You MUST be responsible hon.  good luck

[specialmom]

Hi there.  Welcome. The only way to get pregnant is to have actual intercourse.  Sperm is strong but not strong enough OR smart enough to find the vaginal opening and swim all the way up.  So, unless your boyfriend's penis penetrated you, there is not a risk of pregnancy.

I would buy some condoms though in case this activity ramps up and you guys get carried away and have actual sex.  good luck