I have had hemorrhoids for the last 15 years, ever since my last son was born. Sometimes they are flared and sometimes less cumbersome but albeit, still there. How can I get rid of them once and for all without surgery as that is not an option? I would prefer not to miss any work related to something of this nature. I know, what's another day when I have already put up with its behavior this long, sort of like I was enabling it! I have had an ah ha moment and it's time for a change so please advise! Plus...it's embarrassing during sex with the fiance...I do everything I can so he doesn't notice or see but 6 years is too long to have to hide something nor do I feel like embracing it!