Cheating in a relationship

[Kanela]

Do you find cheating in a relationship more exciting?

[mtgoat911]

its completly selfish and self-centered, in active addiction my husband and i both cheated and we did not have an open marriage, we do not behave this way in recovery
there is more than one way to cheat on your loved one, it can be using drugs and becoming totally emotionally unavailable, or playing golf every night when you get off work ignoring your kids, or one can become so self absorbed they forget to be concerned with thier loved ones needs,
being in a relationship takes effort, if you are cheating on someone you love that does make you an evil jerk in my opinion, however i do not believe in hell, i believe in karma, i believe that someday a cheater will fall deeply in love, become totally involved with another human being, just at the right moment that cheater will find out that their loved one has had sex with another, if you believe in hell i am sure you believe that you will reep what you sow, i call that pay back
put it this way, my husband cheated on me 9 yrs ago and i still feel broken hearted over it, and i cheated on him 6 yrs ago and he still has thoughts and insecurities over the situation, once someone cheats, all that hurt will never go away

[j34]

I voted no. I believe in trust, love,honor. No way do I share what I have worked hard to obtain! Making love to my partner is a spiritual experience and a bonding,that helps our relationship mature.When we want good old fashioned getting it on . I wear the heels..Talk dirty whatever I can be what he wants and vise versa. No sharing here.

[outotown]

been married almost 25 years never done it never will, came close but I stoped it before it happened and is was in the process of happening, at that very moment. HMMMMM!!!! so many women cheaters, i should talk to my wife.

PS I told her she can get a girl friend, BUT I GET TO GET ME ONE TOO!!!

[lonote]

Thankyou for your kind words my dear. You made my day. And also put a smile on my face!!

[LateAugust]

Your spelling was just fine, however your words were so eloquent and well spoken......   a very sincere and nice responce.    I am sure those are memories you would rather leave forgotten, thank you for sharing.

[lonote]

I've cheated before, in my younger years. When my ex husband would beat me up.
It was my way of getting even. Revenge. Only secret revenge, cuz if he found out, it would be  another whooping. I thought that was the norm. I thought fighting went with
alchohol. Guess I had alot to learn in my early 20's. No man has put their hands on me in 35 yrs in an unkind way. Unexecptable. So was cheating. Bad idea. I've been with my husband and in the begining his only rule was to be monogomous. Everything else was up for discussion. I met the man of my dreams. Thats all I wanted was a good man who woulden't cheat. When the one one the recieving end of that finds out it is heartbreaking.
I don't think you are going to hell, and I also don't think you would hurt anyone delibertly.
My spelling is horrible. Pardon the spelling. Good Luck  Hon. Don't do it anymore.