OH come on vicki - you are WAY too smart to let any of the nonsense that may have taken place here mess with your sobriety.
You're stronger than that. And you know it. (and if you don't know it there are PLENTY of people here to remind you of that).
Now go do something FUN today and put this place out of your mind for a while.
♪Dry your eyes and take your song out, it's a newborn afternoon♪
♥~~*~~**~~♥~~(((((♥Vicki♥)))))~~♥~~**~~*~~♥
Hi Vicky,
You did nothing wrong. I remember how I felt when I first started posting. I was so angry and negative. I cussed and moaned. The best replies focused on what I needed to DO and not what I needed to post or not post!
I remember you replied to me SO many times, and it really helped! You know what's going on; you want to share your knowledge with others. That's a good thing!
Please remember: hurt people hurt people. It's not about you, what you advised, or what you posted. It's all about ME! Just kidding, but seriously, I would've freaked out if it weren't for your help and THAT should stick in your heart!
Love and hugs, LINDSAY (yes i am back) day one-half.
Come on vicki, you know that isnt the answer. You rise above this. We cant control what others think. Dont give anyone else YOUR power. You are better than that. I know you are hurting and rightfully so. Put on some music, grab some coffee and chill for a bit. You know i am here for you along with many others. I "heart" you girl~~sara
When I wrote this post yesterday, my intentions were pure and I mean that. It never occurred to me that it would stir up old or new hostilities; it just didn't. Unfortunately, it has and I feel terrible...Although some of the posts here have been removed, it doesn't change the fact that I read them and felt their impact. It's hurt me; I'm sure more than it should have.
As with some others, I've always felt that the forum was a safe and very fun place to be. It doesn't feel safe or fun anymore or at least right now...Yup!! I'm hurting in ways that I can't even articulate and it's scaring me. I know what my past coping mechanisms have been and that mechanism is looking pretty good to me right now. I need to go assuage this pain but the only way I can think of to do that is terrifying to me...
It's interesting to me that this is the first time,since you've been a member here, that you and I have ever had a one to one exchange. Here it is:
I honestly have no idea who or what you think is behind this thread. Like you, I can post or start a thread whenever I want to. Yesterday I wanted to.
How is it my fault when someone refers to me as "Sarg" (sergeant) ? LOL
The last time I started a thread was August 28th. That was 8 days ago and in my world, it isn't a very long time...
Yes, you certainly can go to the Moderators for help and advice and I know they all welcome that! At the same time, I know you're aware that your particular style of posting is not always acceptable; ergo last night when your posts were deleted. But, that's really not for me to judge. I can only judge my own actions and if you feel that my posts lack support and compassion you can always send me a message or contact MH. I'm not sure what would help you reconcile your feelings, though. The fact that you don't happen to like me is your own personl issue.
I hope your posts remain here. I really do. You're entitled to your opinion,thoughts,and feelings. Of course, I don't know how helpful they are and they surely don't promote anything that could be construed as having a positive impact on the forum, but again, that's only my opinion.