So many of us addicts have done things we thought we would never do, just to get more pills. The shame and guilt is something we all must deal with when and if we get clean.
First thing.....you need to protect yourself and your children. Don't stick around hoping he will get sober. He has to want this very badly and even then it's very difficult.
YoYo...I wish I had the answers, but my heart breaks for you and I'm sitting here in tears reading this...May God help you find the answers (and he will through folks in here) and protect you and your precious babies.
Jim
You have done a fantastic job of describing the life and times of living with an addict. YOU can do nothing to help him, it is his journey and he must walk it. You on the other hand have to think about your priorities right now. You are married to a drug and the man you had a relationship is on vacation, so to speak. You must do what it takes to keep your children safe and provide a healthy environment for them. This promise you took on when you gave birth to them. Hopefully while you are doing that, your man will come to his senses. But dont bet on it. Drugs do not affect only the person who takes them but also all those who know and love them. I understand your anger, hurt and feelings of betrayal firsthand. But you have to move to care for those children because all this is doing major major damage to them. Only you can stop it.