What ever happened to Sadinmichigan?

[lady67]

I haven't been on here as much as I used to be, and when I am I notice that some have stopped posting altogether.  Does anyone know what every happended to Sadinmichigan?

[catmagnet]

I thought I saw someone say the other day that she's not on here anymore. Sometimes I come and go, too. We all need to take breaks sometimes.

[lady67]

I know what you mean.  I don't post much anymore, but I still click on it everyday and see what is going on.  Happy Holidays!

[catmagnet]

You too, girl!!! When I run away, you know I'll be back...I don't mean anything by it. I still like you guys. Life just sidetracks you sometimes, and I MIGHT not have internet much longer, I'm gonna try. Economy, ya know=P So if I disappear, I'll be around again...luv...xoxo..cat...=)

[scaredmom330]

she was banned, when she posted she couldnt pay her gas bill MH thought she was asking for money.

[lady67]

OMG!  You have to tip-toe around everything.  So we can't complain about our problems on here anymore?  Jeez!

[starfish1963]

If she was banned it would say it next to her name which it doesn't....

[mommy52]

This is weird. I have been wondering what happened to sad in Michigan and saw that you had last left her a note, Starfish. So I decided to check and see if you had heard from her.Geez, I have talked about my house behind aln cars.. Wasn't asking for $$$$. Just venting and how the economy is affecting us all.Is there anything in particuliar we can't talk about? I do worry about her. When I first came on MH, she had posted and I responded then all of sudden, nothing else. If she was banned, seems like she would have been allowed to tell all good-bye. Am I being unrealistic? Nice to know so many are concerned about her and how she is doing. Blessings to all.  Madlyn

[starfish1963]

I talk with her all the time, she is fine.  She was upset about Vicotram being banned which I was too but honestly I don't know why she isn't posting you would have to ask her.  I will pass this link on to her asap :)

[enemy48]

I received an email from her to my personal adress about 2 weeks ago.  Her email also went to a few other members here.  It was just sort of a prayer/luck type of email.  She didn't add any personal words except for, sorry to send this to you guys, but I need all the luck I can get.

[kim715]

She WAS banned.

[10356]

To Starfish.. Please tell her Lesa in Cali has her and her family in my thoughts and prayers as I think of her often... Thank you..

[Jacqui805]

I just saw this....don't know how I missed it.  

She WAS banned and not for the reasons stated above.  She purposefully got herself banned.

[mommy52]

Maybe I am dense, but how and why would you get yourself purposely banned? Maybe I have not been in touch with the real world for way too long.  Madlyn

[Jacqui805]

Madlyn,

I happened to be on-line, in a chat with her when she did it...This is FIRST-HAND knowledge.  She was peeved about some things and said, "I'm gonna get myself banned off of here tonight" "I'll be right back"  She then posted a mood that called some MH members some names that were not suitable for EVERYONE's viewing, I'll put it that way...THEN, she posted a thread with a title that matched her mood...THEN, she kept posting on it.  She was happy when she got in trouble....I have not spoken to her since.

[mommy52]

I am so sorry for her and I am being sincere. It really seems a need for something for than what she was getting here. So many times when I read posts, it brings me down when I hear people continue wanting to do harm in spite of what others have siad in tryin to comfort. I sometimes want to offer to take to a MD if nearby. I guess that is my nature being a nurse and all. Even though I am the oldest of 4, I still try to fix and keep everything happy in family after Mompassed, even as SICK as I am. Need to work on self FIRST. Huh? I know I do. Thanks for info, but I still worry and am concerned for her. Blessings. Madlyn

[cathy5841]

thank you for clearing that up jacqui.

[Mandapanda17]

I do understand your concern, I worry when people dissapear too... but this one was banned for sure.. so anyone know where Coolio has been? I've been thinking about him and wondering how he is doing??? anyone?

[Madisonjsmom]

Jacqui has it right,

[Sunnyd210]

I miss sad too alot. :(

[scaredmom330]

sorry...didnt mean to pass on wrong information, that was what I was told....anyway sorry all.

[lady67]

I wished she wouldn't have gotten banned because now she can't even drop by and say "Hi".

For future reference guys, if you get mad, just stop posting, and stop reading.  Don't get yourself banned because you will always leave people wondering about you, and if you get over it and decide you want to come back, you can't.  Don't "cut your nose off to spite your face."

Happy holidays.
Susan

[Burrpatch]

What Sad did was a matter of principle. She saw an injustice and after many attempts  going through the proper channels to have it remedied and running into cronyism & nepotism time and time again, she just had enough !! Many were poised to leave during those ridiculous disruptions. Some did, Others stayed. She was here for sharing and healing, not to play school yard games !! She sacrificed herself to draw attention to an on going problem, and it worked. Sort of !! She did much good here and was loved by most. In hindsight, I just wish I was the sacrificial lamb. Although I doubt if that would have stopped her from confronting injustice as she saw it. Heck !! After writing this I may very well be banned!! All is not what it seems. Welcome to the illusion of "Free speech" and standing up for ones self and ones friends !!  That's all I have to say....... such as it is... Merry Christmas Sad, and Merry Christmas to all my MedHelp Homeys as well !! God Bless ! ...B.P.

[Sunnyd210]

Thank you Burrpatch for helping to set the record straight. Sad was the best and didnt deserve the way things were going and you know what Im talking about. I hope people keep posting and asking about her =) She is VERY missed and was an AWESOME part of this forum she helped so many no matter how bad things were going for her at the time!!

[Kova]

maybe i don't know the whole story, but i don't see how calling people "inappropriate names" is being a sacrificial lamb for any cause.

Kova