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[Debbie1054]

I thought we were all here to he one another, just yesterday there were a couple of other people that said they were leaving the site also.  What is going on?  I have only been here for a couple of months and have learned so much about medicine and things.  I am on oxy and am in the process with my doctor's help tappering off.  But I find alot of info on here,  I don't understand why people have to cause problems.  Anyway I just thought I would put my two cents in.   I hope everyone the best...

Debbie

[GoingToMakeIt]

And don't forget to let MedHelp know about it. What if you aren't the only one they are attacking. MedHelp will act on it. We are here to help each other, not hurt.

[marcatj]

it just happens. for a number of reasons.

alot of personalities, sometimes there ARE rotten eggs that come on, sometimes people are very sensitive due to w/d's or use, sometimes it may strike a raw nerve with someone.

i've been here awhile, and all i can tell you is, it will happen, it does happen, and the best thing to do is not engage.  it eventually passes...

:-)
mj

[dominosarah]

just go to the bottom and click on page 2 or whatever you are looking for.  Get out of this post first.  That is how i do it anyways!!!

[SammyTheSnail]

How do you check the recent archives here?

Thanks

[dominosarah]

Or as my mother always said......kill em with kindness!!!!  

Sometimes the person who thinks they have been wronged will also send a real nasty pm and then block you.  All i know is i am here for me and to try and help others.  I take what i need and leave the rest.              

[SammyTheSnail]

I'm going to have to disagree (respectfully) with broknbck's advice on dealing with tactless posters. They're just stirring up the pot, and enjoy coming back to see how much damage they've done.

Ignore them. Don't reply. Don't comment on their posts. Just pretend they're not even here.

Takes all the fun out of it for them, and they'll go disrupt another site. It works.