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febninthgirl needs our support

febninthgirl's 21 yr old brother passed away early Monday morning  from a lethal dose of drugs and alcohol.  He had been on life support in a med induced coma.  This is the cold hard facts of this addiction. Please everyone look at yourself, get honest and make a plan to get clean and stay clean.  This can happen to anyone of us.  Lets gather around her and support her in this time........my thoughts and prayers are with you febgirl.......sara
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(((((( febninthgirl )))))  Prayers and wishes of emotional healing sent to you.
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You have my deepest condolences, I am not even sure what to say right now other than I am so sorry. IT"S NOT FAIR! Hope you will be ok and we are here for you too. Im sorry:(
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1091472 tn?1268845655
I'm sorry for your loss Feb.
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I'm so very sorry for your loss and for the pain your family feels.. My prayers are being sent up with the others that comfort will be found in your loved ones.. lesa
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442658 tn?1563386491
my sincerest sympathy to you and your family.  God bless you...maria
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you are in my prayers
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So very sorry for your loss.  No words that I type will be enough for you.  I wish I could give you a hug.  I'm praying for you and your family.
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1122868 tn?1259532257
I just wanted to say Im sorry for your pain.. and your loss.. luvs ♥☮♥
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495284 tn?1333894042
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The funeral is tomorrow.........
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1096641 tn?1271707225
omg...Febninthgirl...I am SO SORRY for your loss!

(((hugs)))

words are not nearly enough at this time

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Death is hardest on the living. I will be saying prayers for you and yours. May your brother now know the peace that he never seemed to find on earth.
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My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.
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1032715 tn?1315984234
I'm so sorry for your loss,It's hard to know what to say,My prayers are with you and your family at this tragic time.GOD BLESS  Denise
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So sorry for your loss! You are in our thoughts and prayers and may we all draw motivation from this tragic event to do what we know we need to do. Blessings to you my dear and to your family.
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I'm so sorry to hear this...it was apparent how devoted you were to your brother and I know this must be painful...Prayers to you and your family.

Vicki
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I just talked to her and she is taking it very hard. She hasn't been able to get on here lately so I'll be sure to pass all of the support to her when I talk to her next. I am so thankful for this forum. We are like one big caring family. Thank you all so much!

Like Sarah said, this should be a big eye opener to everyone. I also know because my older sis passed away almost 4 years ago from alcohol and pill abuse. She was almost 31. The coroner said her blood alcohol was .011 and she just had a trace of vicodin. This just goes to show that she didn't overdose, it was from long term abuse that probably caused her death. This just shows how much damage is done to our bodies over time.
I didn't mean to hijack this post as it was meant for feb. I just want everyone to be aware of how serious abuse can be. It is so not worth the risk. I saw what it did to my parents and family and no parent should have to bury their child. Life is so precious and anything can happen at any time. I pray that everyone realizes this so we can all live a happy and long life.

Brian
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I am so very sorry to hear this. That could easily be me that you are posting about.  I fully well know how much it hurts.........but this is one that you have to experience. Let your feelings guide you and know that evryone grives differently and for different amounts of time.
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230262 tn?1316645934
Im so terribly sorry to hear this =(((((    Febningirl- I know how much you tried so hard to help your brother. I followed your posts, and saw how much you loved him and wanted so bad to help him. This is so devastating. My thoughts, prayers and love go out to you and your family. Im so sorry.
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Sorry. Hugs.
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452063 tn?1324074916
So sorry for your loss. May prayers and the strength and support of others help you through this painful time in your life.
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176495 tn?1301280412
How very very sad....my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family



Jim
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Hey guys thank you so much. Kinda unbelievable but its life. I feel really sad but have the nicest people I've ever known here with me. Thank you again
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hey girl....wow im so sorry to hear about your brother ...I know you did everything you could do to help him...sometimes our best efforts our in vein....I know it dosent mater to you now but I do  know your situation and threre was absolutely nothing you could have done differently or better to avoid this you where a great sister to him and this is not your fault.....it is just one of the saddest consequences of addiction...my heart goes out to you and your family ...I will pray that god gives you the strength to get thew this
sincerely your friend Mark  
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662972 tn?1270166301
Hello I am so so sorry for the loss of your brother. You have my deepest condolences and if there is ANY THING I can do just let me know. Your always trying so hard to help others its ok to let people help you to.. I know how much you loved him and wanted the best for him. Nothing I write will compare to the hurt or make it go away but know that your in my prayers and I am here for you if you need me day or night, Much love and respect, Hollie
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