where do you want to be ten years from now?

[sway1]

i have a problem answering this question. i suffered alot of tragedy from a very young age. my family was one of those catholic types who just went on as if terrible things didn't happen. i don't think the stages of grieving were the catholic trend back then. i am not trying to offend anyone's faith, just trying to get handle on my dysfunctional family. if bad things happen to you or yours, please find a way to work through it. because i can't answer a simple question, i feel like damaged goods. just waiting for my real life to begin.

[scaredmom330]

I will be 60 then, probably dead, if not, still living here on the lake with hubby, bo won't still be with us but will have another dog...can't live without the puppy kisses..hopefully the economy will be better and hubby will be working and we will have cash!!! I miss shopping whenever the mood stikes....poor gizzy having him  nuetered seems extreme....nice butt, that's a joke unles you like em big...lmfao

[NautyOne]

Porn Star........lmao!!  let me know if you need any help with that.......that could make me want to stick around..........hahhahhahhahha


Nauty...............

[allaboutmary]

I don't have children so there will be no grandchildren.  I'm hoping that within ten years one of my nephews has a baby.  Our family really needs a baby. It's been too long without pudgy cheeks to kiss right off their face.  Hoping I will be semi-retired so I can enjoy my sisters grand-babies.
(if not I will have to go live with Liscamdave and her twins)lol

[badsneakers]

I want to be a rock star, professional hockey player and full-time home movie porn star!  (for my eyes only, Nauty!)

Pretty sure none of that will happen so I will go where the river flows...but will be sober and happy for sure!

[NautyOne]

LoL........You'll still be rocking that Bootay!!! girlfriend.......Nursing home is not so bad, I hear the food is great and think about all them gray hairs swatting you with their cane's .........you know where....lmao!!!!!

I hope everyone gets what they desire and more, ten years from now !!!!

Nauty.........

[mtgoat911]

sway, i am not familiar with your story, but i am sure you are not damaged goods
no one has fallen to far for recovery
try to keep the focus on today, what do you want to do with yourself today
if i look at everything i want to accomplish in the next ten years i would certainly be overwhelmed!!!!

[enemy48]

I'd like to still have a nice butt.

I'd like a part-time man w/a nice butt.

I'd like to have made back all the money I've lost and more.

I'd like to be living in a quaint home that doesn't require yard work....and I'm not talking about a nursing home Nauty!

I hope my daughter is graduated from college (in her 5th year now) and happy w/life, family & work.....maybe a child if she wants.

I'd like to be healthy still and have no more back problems.

I'd like to still love my job....what ever it shall be.....and make excellent money and have the time to spend and share it w/friends and family.

I like to have many true friends.

If I can have all of the above, I'd feel very rich w/life.  I used to have most of the above and it went to drugs.  My goal is to get it all back, and I know it doesn't happen overnight.  I'm typing this w/tears.

Best Wishes.

[sway1]

i was in such a morbid state when i posted that question. you all reminded me of a very basic rule, and that is, not to take life too seriously. you rock. don't you dare get neutered gizzy. we all need balls nowadays! peace. sway

[lady67]

Well, Hopefully I will still be sober.  I also hope to be rocking my grandchild.  My oldest daughter is 17 and by then she will be out of college and married (she plans to get married next year because he boyfriend is in the Marines) so I would love to have a grandchild to play with.  I am not sure about work though.  I love my job, but by then I may want to retire and start working with my husband in his landscaping business

[road2recovery]

LMAO giz....My fried brain tries to just think for today, so i will give it a shot...
10 yrs, i will be 50..omg that sounds so old.defifnelty no nice butt then..lol

Still clean
Lots of grandbabies to spoil then send back home
hope to be in good health ( but have to stop smoking soon errr!)
hope to still have my yorkie here with me
travel alot just me and hubby
wow, and see my youngest graduate high school....

[PromisedLand]

well....I'll be 68...(holy cow) and hopefully have a few years left in me..

[NautyOne]

Simply..........Dead.  I will be to dang old.  He!!, at this point I don't think I will have to worry about it.........

[PromisedLand]

Oh, and fried chicken and dumplings and biscuits and gravy and okra and iced tea for dinner every night.


Jim

[PromisedLand]

I hope to be retired, living in Georgia enjoying my grandkids and living near my son and his wife so I can just walk or hobble up the dirt road to see them...sitting on my front porch in a comfortable chair, smoking my pipe reading the paper..no computers, no TVs...I'm afraid my best friend Bear (well second best friend) won't be with me then but you can bet I'll have another golden retriever lying next to me...

Perhaps by then, my wife's health issues will be resolved and we can enjoy ourselves til it's time to go link up with my son who went before me.

Jim

[troubleinohio]

PS i wish i was good at photoshop (i wish i HAD photoshop, lol) i so want to make an icon now of gizzy's  homer simpson pic with an elizabethean collar around his head, lolol  Crapp-- anyone here that can do that??

[troubleinohio]

lmao sarah!!! I think Giz might have a problem with the neutering! hahaha thats so hilarious... so...can we tie one of them lamp shade thingy's around his head so he doesnt try to chew his stitches out?? LMAO

[kim715]

In 10 years from now I will still be clean......
I will have gone back to school to become a paramedic and be working on an Emergency Response Team again...
Enjoying my children and their spouses..........
Have lots more grandbabies...I hope
Spending quality time with my husband,just the 2 of us,of course that will be when we're not spoiling all those grandbabies I better have by then!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Oh and of course I will have finally met Sara and Jacqui in person and we will be planning our 8th or 9th girls weekend get away!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[dominosarah]

10 yrs from now my grandson will be graduating from high school so i will be getting ready for that, better stockpile the tissues now!!!!!
I will be clean..........
I will not be waking up to a woman with a nice butt.........
Hope my empty bank account has at least a dollar in it!!!!!
Better have more grandkids by then......
I will still be single.........
I will be enjoying all the benefits of AARP.......

Gizzy.....we are going to take you to the vet and have you nuetered!!!!!  LOL

[GoingToMakeIt]

Gizzy,you crack me up!
Ten years from now...clean, vacationing, retired. (If you are tired today and then tired tomorrow, then that makes you re-tired)

[gizzy32]

I am using the excuse as i concentrated on my recovery lol, sex can make a man do stupid things, been there, done that and i am doing it again, lol

[gizzy32]

I don't want to live to 150 and it's high right now because this year i broke my record for the least sex ever, lol. I was saving myself till now, hehe

[troubleinohio]

I dont think i will even be alive still in 10 years, scary i know, just a feeling. Ive abused this body too damn much Im afraid.  hows that for a cheerful outlook? lol

anyways I hope you start to feel better soon. Im sorry I dont know your whole story/situation so Im not very useful tonight to you.

gizzy- i swear your libido is going to keep you living til youre 150 years old, and you'll still be a horny ole coot with your nice -asssed woman.lol

[sway1]

my post was lacking some sense. (as am i) what i mean is that the future has seemed so uncertain to me for as long as i can remember. i never trained my brain to think very far ahead, to dream. i am working on re-thinking my thinking. at my age, this could get ugly.lol. gizzy i hope you find your dream buttand have a long and happy life. thanks to all for responding. peace       sway

[allaboutmary]

Sorry I didn't mean to make light of your post. I just couldn't pass that one up.

I also am not sure where I want to be in 10 years.  I am hoping to still be alive.  I think I would like to travel a little, retire and just enjoy life.( I guess)