how do u no when hes for real about quitting smokin crack?? wat do i do??

[rezie]

Ok so i been with this guy 2 1/2 years n he was clean the 1st year but had smoke years ago... ok he started smokin crack again bout a year ago along with drinkin an smokin weed (everyday)  i stayed with him bucause he really asked for help n he wanted to quite. Now he's got a great job but he slowed dwn from 6 to $800 a week to $20 every mth then it was 20 every 3 mths. But now its every few days. It make me sick to my stomach jus knowin hes smoked it. What do i do? Do i leave?

[rezie]

Thanks for all your advice it really helped. I've always been drug free but most my fam. is not i need more awareness. N u were wight on point bout all of it. So again thank u soooo very much.  

[overopiates]

  Losing battle4u.He needs treatment LONG TERM No drug of any kind or alcohol.by ex brother n law was the same....is the same.He.doesn't wanna stop or he would get help and STOP.My ex BIL.BEEN N REHAD11times2kids.amazing wonderul woman(my sis who he emotionally broke til she left4good3years ago+Suss great hes worse.than ever.)He manipulated u saying things.like he wants u2he help him,wants2quit(probably cant LIVE w/o u ALL MINDGAMES).He can still b and do what je wants.ur miserable.Time to go it only gets worse.Hes isnt special,different etc.He's like all the rest u seem like a great woman and deserve a great man

[atthebeach]

hi and welcome to MH. even if he is slowing down he still has an addiction issue.
he has to be pro-active in his recovery. has he done anything besides say he wants to quit? he has contacted any counselors,gone to any na/aa meetings?
how old are you? do you live with him?
he wont stop using until he is truly ready to stop.
may the LORD bless you and keep you
debbie

[overopiates]

    I am shocked u have been able2deal w/it this long.Bluntly put if he is still using he is still a total junky.Crack isn't a recreational drug its an all consuming addiction and just because u THINK he he's only using a small amount doesnt make it true.Even if it is true do u. Really wanna b w/a crack addicted who "lowers"his intake but makes u feel this way forever???This is a