I am shocked u have been able2deal w/it this long.Bluntly put if he is still using he is still a total junky.Crack isn't a recreational drug its an all consuming addiction and just because u THINK he he's only using a small amount doesnt make it true.Even if it is true do u. Really wanna b w/a crack addicted who "lowers"his intake but makes u feel this way forever???This is a
hi and welcome to MH. even if he is slowing down he still has an addiction issue.
he has to be pro-active in his recovery. has he done anything besides say he wants to quit? he has contacted any counselors,gone to any na/aa meetings?
how old are you? do you live with him?
he wont stop using until he is truly ready to stop.
may the LORD bless you and keep you
debbie
Losing battle4u.He needs treatment LONG TERM No drug of any kind or alcohol.by ex brother n law was the same....is the same.He.doesn't wanna stop or he would get help and STOP.My ex BIL.BEEN N REHAD11times2kids.amazing wonderul woman(my sis who he emotionally broke til she left4good3years ago+Suss great hes worse.than ever.)He manipulated u saying things.like he wants u2he help him,wants2quit(probably cant LIVE w/o u ALL MINDGAMES).He can still b and do what je wants.ur miserable.Time to go it only gets worse.Hes isnt special,different etc.He's like all the rest u seem like a great woman and deserve a great man
Thanks for all your advice it really helped. I've always been drug free but most my fam. is not i need more awareness. N u were wight on point bout all of it. So again thank u soooo very much.