HELP FROM MOM'S WHO SNORTED OXY AND DILAUDID DURING PREGNANCY

[mom2bee232]

need help and advice...
I need advice from someone who has lived this.. Has anyone out there been addicted to ocys an dilaudid and snorted more than 30 mg oxy and 10 mg dilaudid a day during your pregnancy?? We are matched for adoption with a birthmom who is continuing to use during her pregnancy and we cannot get any clear information about long term effects on a child exposed to these drugs.. We understand the short term (up to 30 day) physical withdrawl, but does anyone  have kids that have been exposed to thses drugs thorughout pregnancy?? any effects????
Help??

[BarbRTR]

I don't have any experience either, however, I have a cousin in her early thirties who was adopted, and the birth mother abused pain meds the whole time.
My cousin was unusually fussy the first couple months, but no more so than some colic babies with mothers that didn't abuse.
She grew up with parents that "picked" her. They loved her so much! She made straight A's throughout high school, deans list through college and has her PHD. She lead a normal life; no extra anxiety, no developmental delays etc.

This is by no means endorsing meds. Just a baby born addicted I watch grow up.

For your own peace of mind, and readiness, I would offer up for you to talk to your own OB/GYN and/or the pediatrician you hire. Also, not sure if it's your first child, but if it is, talking to your Dr is even more important, so you don't over worry once the baby comes, as far as what to expect. Also find out what the plan is to wean the baby when he/she is born.

Congrats on being matched. This is a wonderful process, with a great reward. Please don't let this deter you. Just ask questions of your Dr, and feel comfortable with your decision.
Good luck to you, and the precious baby.

[Andie015]

I am ashamed to admit this but I didn't know I was pregnant with my first until I was months into my pregnancy and I used pain meds the whole time. I am not entirely comfortable talking about this but if it helps put your mind at ease then it's worth it. I used pain meds rather heavily until about the 6th or 7th month because I didn't know any better and I'm so happy to say that she is one of the most intelligent kids in her class. The information she holds on to is amazing to not only her father and I but her teachers..she is truly amazing and I thank god everyday that she is so amazing. It's not a good start for this child to be exposed to this however it doesn't mean this child is off to any worse of a start than any other child. Just trust this child will be beautiful and wonderful like any other baby and give it the best life you can....he/she may have a bit of a rough start but be there to give it the most beautiful childhood they deserve. You sound like concerned parents so I know you will be a wonderful Inspiration in  this child's life.  Just be there...no matter what...I pray you will have an excellent and wonderfully intelligent child like I do....chances are you will. Enjoy parenthood...it's a total trip in a good way!!!!

[hope6hope]

I don't have any experience with this. I just wanted to tell you I hope everything works out. Thank goodness this baby has such loving parents. Hugs

[ImDONENoMore]

I'm so sorry you're going through all of this.  How terribly difficult this must be for both of you.  I don't have any experience with this kind of thing, but I'm sure someone soon will come along and offer some solid advice to you.  I just wanted to lend my support.  I hope this all works out well for all of you.  I do know one thing, though.  This baby will be very lucky to have you.