i'm having a very weak moment tonight.... i'm emotional so i'll get right into it... i run an adult foster home and one of my ladies died this am in my arms, i spent from 10-3 with officers, medical examiners, ambulance people, and firefighters, when diner was supposed to be at 2 pm then to top it of,for christmas this year my parents disapeared for 10 hours before calling anyone... so you can imagine she what if's running through your mind about at that 8th hour after not contacting anyone and supposed to be at your house for dinner can do a mind.. well all of these emotional things are making me want to use because that is how i've lived with grief for so long,, and now i'm about 12 hours into detox, so it's not bad yet but the brain is screaming give me my drug, and i've just had the christmas from hell!!! I need support bad... I really want through it this time, i want my life back, and i want myself back.. i keep just trying to tell myself the emotions will come easier and i guess i just need to hear they do... by the way i'm coming off of a 150-220 hydro addiction of three years