Where are they now?

[Mikeinthesouth]

I remember a couple days ago just seeing a few people keeping up right behind me I don't seem to see em anymore. Where'd they go?? I know I am right behind cadillac jack.

[122 Tactical Fighter Group]

One thing that you might notice about this forum is that many people start to make an attempt to get things right and then disappear - what do you think happens to them? Successful detox's probably make around 10-15% of the stories after you've been around a year - - its easy to get overconfident or just not make it -

[GoingToMakeIt]

Cadillac Jack is here on Day 40.

[CadillacJack]

Cadillac Jack will continue to be here indefinitely.

[sadinmichigan]

This forum is great..BUT there are times when life calls and you have to take care of business..right away people seem to assume you have somehow relapsed..etc...there are soooo many people on here..it's hard to keep track of everybody..Mike- you know I love you to pieces...lol
cadillacJack-  awesome on day 40..but then you already knew that...

[Mikeinthesouth]

Yeah I feel the same luv u too just remember to leave a piecce for me like my head. Lived without it for to long. Ha

[Mikeinthesouth]

Yeah eagle I see that but was hoping different I they might pop up soon. If not and if they did use agin I hope the best for em and will expect to see em again and if they did'nt use then I will feel better. Funny how we can start to have concern for all the people behind these posts without ever having spoken a word to em...

[NautyOne]

I always think the worst, so when I'm wrong I feel so much better......does that make sense?  That gets misunderstood as negativity to a lot of people here and in my real life.  That's just me......what can I say.

Nauty............

[Mikeinthesouth]

Yeah I try to have low expectations when it comes to people for the most part unless of course they are very close to me, but I try to keep that in check as I sure don't want to be over pessimistic I like to keep optimistic views as much as I can in life.

[ladyboop]

Now that does not sound like you. You are so kind and caring when it comes to others.. You have been there for me. Even when I am just rambling on about something crazy...lol...lol...
Glad it is all going well with you... Hugs those girls today..

            Lady

[Mikeinthesouth]

hug em every day now low expectations does not mean low opinion. I have a very high opinion of you all especially you lady. U r a very nice person and have a great spirit.

[addict3]

Here I am Buddy right up your back, my count is 32 days what is yours or did I slip in a day?
I have posted, but layed off as I was in P!$$y mood for several days.
Feel lots better now thanks. I'm still tracking you!!! LOL

[sadinmichigan]

hey superman...how are ya?? LOL

[studiogirl]

I am one of those people.  I made a promise to myself on this board that I would not use anymore unless it was to east the withdrawals and I failed.  I just couldnt face getting back on here but I have been reading everyones posts trying to get the will to taper or go ct again.  Its so hard to do the right thing.  Anyway, I dont know if you were thinking of me at all but I just wanted to say that all your words are helpful even when I am making big mistakes once more.

[GoingToMakeIt]

You are not negative. It's just that blasted split personality! Isn't it?

[ladyboop]

You are one of the best Mike. Always a kind word for someone... You have a way of making people feel good about them selfs, Even when we have messed up....

You have a great heart.....  :-))

           Lady

[Brrrrad]

Hey Bro- brrrad here on day 32  i cant believe it . i`ve been follwing your posts keep it up...

[Mikeinthesouth]

there they are ha glad to see you addict and brad. oohhh see we can start to higher our expectations....

[Mikeinthesouth]

Yeah stdio I was refering to you brad and addict and know you will be okay. Its not the first time someone has used around here. LOL I can't imagine all the times I have used even when I did not want to so don't sweat it just dust ya self off and get back on you can do it. It is never over until it is over. Those are a few words I live by and will one day hopefully not have to think of them so much. U no??

[ILoveLukey]

My hats off to you.  You are a very strong-willed and determined person. I admire you for the taper you are doing.  You are an inspiration to many.

[Mikeinthesouth]

No taper just ct for me. I don't want to stretch it out I would rather just let it hit me all at once get it done so I can try to recoup whats left of me.

[Mikeinthesouth]

If that is you were refering to me.

[ILoveLukey]

So sorry. I was thinking you were tapering. That's it......let it hit you all at once and get it over with. How are you holding up? Did I read 40 days for you? Again sorry I got it confused.

[jetsetgrl]

I am hear. I did not document my quit date. It was sometime in 1/08.

[jetsetgrl]

I meant to say- I am here. LOL