Make an appt with your doctor and have this checked out.
"one morning made the trip to the restroom to use the porcelain,and surprising found blood in stool"
Blood in your stool can be many things such as hemorrhoids all the way to colon cancer. You need to make an appointment to see a doctor so he can properly evaluate and diagnose you.
"I have astma,and I do use mary jane for it helps with my breathing ,dont really like the inhaler stuff but it helps at times,when I run out joints(lol)'
I dont think your marijuana use has anything to do with your bleeding issue. And, I really think its unlikely that it helps with your asthma and breathing. Have you considered stopping your drug use? You say your a father of a 1 year old with one on the way....maybe its a good time to consider quitting.
Hope it all works out for you.
It depends on if it is bright red blood or black tarry stools. Bright red blood usually indicates hemorrhoids or something external while black tarry stools means old blood and bleeding internally.
I think you should definitely get a medical opinion about that.