When he is really ready to be clean then the state run facilities will do just fine, until then, he is 21 and this big problem needs to be HIS problem. Until it is or until he is ready, sadly, nothing will change. I will keep you both in my prayers and keep posting here, everyone here is super nice and very supportive and may be able to offer some better suggestions. God Bless, Jacky
Thanks for your response Jacky,my funds are drained and your right he has to want this himself. The only rehab I see right now is jail but thats not the answer. I cant afford 15-20,000.00 a month for rehab its crazy. He thinks hes too good for the state run facilitys cause he thinks hes above everyone else. Big Problem
Perhaps you and your son could discuss his problem honestly with his probation officer and/or doctor and get some recommendations for inpatient rehab. All of you need to be on the same page and until everyone is, nothing will change. He really needs to want this and if he does than you all should be thinking about rehab for him as it seems nothing else has helped. If he really wants this than he has to take control of his recovery and inform the prescribing doctor immediatley and you could be there for support. Maybe you could bring him to this site for some support too. Best of luck to both of you and im sure you will get some more responses soon that may be of more help. You will be in my prayers. Luv, Jacky