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thankyou and sorry...

My husband decided to leave me today because he is a drug addict and i am recovering..He doesn't obviously like it..all i know is..i am devestated...slap in the face kinda way..things in life are hard..i am not a weak person in general..but my friends...i am afraid i have reached my limit...whatever you want to call it....he actually threatened me to take my kids...HA those ARE FIGHTING WORDS.... and yes i took 4 oxy's..which i never did..and they" just"came my way...isn't that lovely...I am a piece of **** and I am sorry...I don't have a script or anything...it was either that or vodka...sorry the truth hurts..
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I no u were joking cathy i was throwing some humor out there. Smiling does help as we all no I hate for you lisa to have this in your plate right now but like all say it will be better in the long run. Mike
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Do you SEE how many people here believe in you?  If you would believe in yourself 1/4 as much as everyone else did.....you would be dancing on the table right about now!!!  :0)

Pfffttttttt.....so you took a few pills....let it go...put it out of your mind.  As far as you've come?  It aint no big thing.  Honestly.

Grab your boot straps, baby.... and PULL PULL PULL.  

I know it may not be what you want or need to hear right now...but your DH leaving will actually help you in the long run.  Think of how much more challenging recovery would have been with it right in front of you all the time?  And, financially...he is making it impossible for you.  Remember boiling the water.....and why you had to do that.

One day at a time, one minute at a time, one SECOND at a time if you have to!!!!!  OK?

You are soooo much stronger than you ever give yourself credit for.

Tomorrow is a new day.  Take a hot bubble bath and count all of your blessings.  

Ok, I'm done...no more cliches.  ;0)

Big squishy hugs to you.....
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Listen up sister.....you are strong, and you know it.  He wants you to fail.  I don't have the time to read all of these posts right now but I agree with Nauty, don't worry about the rebound man right now, worry about you and your kiddos....you are special, SO special....  remember...♥ ya!  hehe
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I am new here, but when I was really crazy I will never forget you answered a post and got me through a little longer. I do not know your story but, STOP, REGROUP
and THINK. I have
been and will continue to pray for you!

From what I have read you can do this, hang on.
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Your better off being alone than with someone your alone with.  I wouldn't worry so much right now about how your going to replace him.  You'll be fine.  You might not see it now, but you will in time.......trust me.

Luv,
Nauty..............
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Lisa, my thoughts and prayers are with you..I can't add anymore than anyone else has said except to repeat "YOU ARE NOT A PIECE OF !@#!!..

you know you can't face this stuff on pills or booze..the problems are going to be there tomorrow..you goofed, you took the pills..that's understandable..tomorrow is a new day and time to face the issues.

we're behind you

Jim
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