Hi honey, and welcome:
Does your doctor know you want to get off the tramadol? It is both an opiate and anti-depressant combined...you might want to let him/her know of your decision so they can help you.
You've already experienced some withdrawals, and Yes, they are no fun. Unfortunately, there isn't any way to avoid feeling horrible while we get these drugs out of our system, and our bodies try to adjust to a whole new chemical state.
I take gabapentin (the brand name here is also Neurontin, but it is now available in the U.S. as the generic gabapentin.) I take it for nerve pain as well. Some folks say it helps getting off opiates, but there is no way to avoid feeling sick when you finally stop them.
Gabapentin has been largely replaced by Lyrica in the States (a long story..its basically the same drug. The big pharmaceutical companies lost a lot of money when the patent lock on a drug comes off and they are forced to release the formula...which results in a TON of companies abroad producing the generic of the drug and hurting their profits.) I too, am on a large dose, but my doctor assures me it is safe. But I digress....
As I said, its best that you do this under your doctor's supervision. You've only been on the Tramadol for 3 years..that is good. The longer you've been on an opiate, the tougher and more drawn out the withdrawal will be. BUT...Tramadol can be tricky, since its two drugs in one.
Come clean with your doctor; I'd tell her that your pain is essentially gone and now you'd like help safely withdrawing from this medication.
Let us know what you decide to do, and congratulations on making a positive decision for your mind, body and spirit.
Hugs,
-Robin
im in new zealand and just realized that over here its called gabapentin but also known as neurontin