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6064084 tn?1421357084

I'm really stressed out really stressed out

OK here's the thing we are leaving for the weekend I'm looking forward to spending time with my hubby and 2 girls but not looking forward to being around other people my emotions are still all over the place..ugh....before it was take pills before I left, take some more when I got there etc. It's going to be a long weekend cause were going to the amusement park and I am just hoping that I can have fun and not worry if I'm gonna snap at my hubby and girls.  My question is how do I cope????

2) This person who shall remain nameless keeps coming on this site to just stir up trouble and I have stayed out of it since day one and let all the peeps with more experience handle the situation, but really this person is just pissing me off, if this person knew the real struggle that we are/have been going though to be were we are at....really? I need to get it off my chest cause it's been bothering me I know it shouldn't but it does.
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Hey sweetie I hope you have a fabulous weekend! You will probably enjoy it more than you know! Just take it hour by hour and ho with the flow!
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2083449 tn?1381354708
Hi there! Deep breaths and relax. Just let it happen. I'm sure you will enjoy your trip with your family. Try not to anticipate anything, and don't put pressure on yourself to act any certain way. Have fun and make good, clear, and sober memories with your family! Can't wait to hear how it goes.

As far as 2) don't worry about things and people you can not control. Remember, they win when they get to you. That is their whole mission. I used to let myself get so caught up in other people and what they would say and do. It hurt me far more than it hurt them! Now, I just sit back and laugh.

Take care!
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6064084 tn?1421357084
ok rosy I know I'm a ho but please lol I hope so I just don't know why I'm stressed about it.
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A ho? What are u talking about hon?
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495284 tn?1333894042
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Try and take some deep breaths.....You will be pleasantly surprised at the good time you will have this weekend.  You will be tired but it will be a good tired.  Pay attention to the look on the girls faces while you are out and about and then think how grateful and blessed you are to have this 2nd chance at life.  Many times seeing the world thru a childs eyes is the best therapy.  As for the other question, just let it go.  We all learn valuable lessons in recovery, some shows us the way and others show us where we came from~
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6064084 tn?1421357084
Just take it hour by hour and ho with the flow!

was making a funny on your typo...lol
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Sonrissa is very right! Sometimes people have nothing better to do than spread viscous lies... Its happened to everyone at some point in life... Who cares? They don't so why should you?
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LMAO!! I'm so dang sorry!! Haha
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6064084 tn?1421357084
I'm gonna try to it's like I'm excited and scared at the same time.
as for #2 I just wanna knock there block off
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Ho with the flow!! New rap song! Haha
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Getting angry like that is like drinking poison and then waiting for the other person to die...
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495284 tn?1333894042
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It's okay to be scared.  Going out in public without our shield is scary but you will see so many great things and each outing will get easier.

(I'm a voodoo doll fan!)
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6063300 tn?1430430571
I think I know who you are talking about and sweetie its not worth it!  Just sing Rosys new song and laugh and have a great time with your family!
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2083449 tn?1381354708
Hey! Do you remember those Rock-em Sock-em Robots? Or, are you too young? If so, google it. :)
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495284 tn?1333894042
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lol !!!!!
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6064084 tn?1421357084
Gosh I hope so Sarah and I'm a Guns and Roses die hard fan lol I'm just hoping the girls can get along the older one is 21 the younger one is 14 and the things they call each other...I just don't know why I'm so freaked out
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6064084 tn?1421357084
I'll be singing that this weekend to keep me calm I'm a ho with flow lol
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3199802 tn?1362250559
I love that!! Anger like that is like drinking poison and waiting for the other person to die!  I also like the Ho with the flow song ;-)
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2083449 tn?1381354708
Welcome to the Jungle! Love that song!
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6064084 tn?1421357084
Oh bear I just can't stand the disrespect!
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1909286 tn?1379435137
Hey Lizzy, try not 2 worry about "tomorrow" just 2day!!...ur going 2 have so much fun on ur trip being clean & all!!...I know when I'm on pills, I hardly laugh...u will b able 2 laugh & enjoy it, plus remember the trip!!!...so relax girl & have FUN...& don't give a crap what other people say!!...u r CLEAN, that's all that matters!!!  xxoo :)  PM me if u need/want 2 talk!...
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6064084 tn?1421357084
I sure do remember them, I wish I was young again lol
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6064084 tn?1421357084
Yea it is a good one I'm gonna write on post its and stick it around the house
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6064084 tn?1421357084
Thank you Teri gosh girl I'm trying to I wanted to post since yesterday but I'm still working on asking for help, I am always the go to person so it's been kinda hard.
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