TO ALL THAT HAVE LOST SOMEONE!!!!!

[BANDIDA]

Just starting a new thread 4 all of us who habe lost someone lately or who R going thru family issues!! The OLD THREAD WAS  getting 2 long!!!! Hope Ya'll will join!!! XXXOOO Terry

[BANDIDA]

First I must say I am so sorry for the loss of your friend....so young! You know the saying God works in mysterious ways. Perhaps it was best that she go to him less she suffer further from the injuries she received. It is tragic enough that she was in an accident but to have it caused by a drunk driver is even worse. I can relate since I was once one of those. 3 DUI's under my belt not to mention all the ones I didn't get caught at. I thank God I never injured or killed anyone or myself. What was doled out to me by the court is rough but really probrably the only thing that got me to stop and see the destruction I was causing to myself and others. Maybe this person that hit her needs that same wake up call. I'm guessing their punishment by the courts will be worse than mine....But the worst will be living with the fact that they selfishly took someones life just to get a Buzz. Ours is not to know why but to keep our faith and walk the road that has been given to us. I fell of my path but now let my Higher Power do the driving for me. Hope this helps you. Writing it makes me feel strong and reassures me that I'm getting things right these days.   Have a super day!!!!! Terry

[boogieman]

hi. hope i'm not breaking any rules posting this. i do read your conversations and really enjoy all of your comments----from the somewhat crazy sense of humor you have to the more serious stuff---it's a lot like the fellowship in the meetings (and i mean crazy in a good way---i got papers that qualify my psychological condition). anyhoo, here's my question: a young (32) lady who was very active in aa in my area was hit head on this past sunday. she died yesterday after being taken off of life support. the real kicker is she was hit by a drunk driver that was going the wrong way. well i guess it's really not a question, more like a request for your feedback as these kinds of things tend to really challenge my faith. thanks for being here on mh........gm

[BANDIDA]

correction it's frikin 48 degrees!!!!! This sunny florida!!!!! What up?

[BANDIDA]

I'm still around.....reading but not taking the time to write. Still training the Boss!!! We now exchange DVD's. I loaned him "Dude where's my car" Poor guy didn't get it! So dumb!!!!! Have Toms Exes Cat! What a mess she is! You know how they say pets and their owners take on eachothers traits? Well it's true!!!! All this one does is lay around whine and eat!!!! Not necessarily in that order, But the whining is driving me nuts!!!!! I have her on a diet! Tom starts training Monday for a new job, nothing great but it's income till something better comes along. Bank has offered to restructer the home loan at 3.5 fixed!!! Halllelujah we won't have to foreclose!!! WHEW!!!!!! I'll catch ya's later...am off today. It's cold here 60 somethin...hard nipple season LOLOLOL Terry

[ibizan]

don't know where all those other girls r!deer r lovely creatures..it is bow season here and they come thru town poor things!my neighbor lady had big pile of deer droppings on her lawn!u keep up that sobriety wagon girl.....the remorse...emotional hangover of a relapse ain't worth it.Pray for Jennifer Hudson.....the grief she must be xperiencing overwhelms me...her 2...she is a strong lady but what a triple whammy to have to deal with.What a friggin world we live in!sigh!

[TJack]

Well girl it is going.  One day at a time!  I had a good session with the therapist today.      I guess right now Ibi we will just have our pet deer, that come through and chow down on everything morning and evening.  2 does and they both have twin fawns.  
Hope your week is going good.  Where is everybody?  PHt, Bandi, and MJ?  Everybody doing okay?  okay, take care and i will check in tomorrow.  TJ