TO ALL THAT HAVE LOST SOMEONE!!!!!

[BANDIDA]

Just starting a new thread 4 all of us who habe lost someone lately or who R going thru family issues!! The OLD THREAD WAS  getting 2 long!!!! Hope Ya'll will join!!! XXXOOO Terry

[ibizan]

stew sounds greyt!no a dog would not be good for u...two cats would be...they can be left alone better for a few days other than a dog.....with someone to go in and feed and change litter box.so how is that sobriety going girl?

[TJack]

You are so right.  I've got to get me a dog.  We have not done it because we go so much, it wouldn't be fair to her.  But, we miss a pet.  We had a cocker, weiner dog cross for 17 years and it broke our hearts when we had to put him down.   He was to the suffering part and no choice.  No need to tell your Mom things that will upset her, i do the same with mine.  I have a quilt my Grandma made me when i was 7.  50 years ago and i have it out where i can see it.  i love it.  dutch girls.  i have no talents for crafts but admire those who do.  Making two big pots of beef stew.   One for me (as Ed has flown to L.A. to help his Aunt with financial stuff) and one for my mother in law and father in law.  Ed just called and sounded disappointed, stew without him. haha  I told him i will make more when you get home.  Yes, the drama stuff, i don't have much of.
just one friend, it is always a drama, big time, but what do you do.  She is so good and loving, just let it go.  Story telling is more like it.   Thanks for your response.  TJ

[ibizan]

mom good.....she does not know about all the belongings in the house...it would flip her out...no need 2 do that....i love the comfort of having her big afghans around me at nite....and her things and my dad's things....Lord how i hate drama!enuf of it here at work....the dogs and cats give me very little!:why i love them so much..plus comfort and love one knows will always b there!t-jack..u stay on that wagon....no BS excuses to use..never a good reason...always flimsy xcuses!:)

[TJack]

Bandi/Ibi/Mj and all
Just checking in to say hi and see what's up?  Loving this fall weather up here in the nw.
foggy mornings and sunny around 11, getting to 70 and the leaves are gorgeous.  My favorite time of year.  Hubby is on his way to airport to fly to LA.  Has to help his Aunt with some financial paperwork.  We were going to drive down, but it wouldn't really be a pleasure trip and i don't partake in their business meetings etc. so i decided Nah, i will stay home.  
Ibi, how is your Mom?  Mine is doing pretty good.  She sounds good and is doing her physical therapy, walking and getting stronger.  It actually shocks me@  I am so happy though.  okay, post all the news.  I have fallen off the wagon, but back on it again now.
Lord help me one day at a time.  Hugs to you gals.  TJ

[BANDIDA]

It is almost 2 amusing!!!!  I definitley (spelling) Think I need 2 write a book!!!!!!

[ibizan]

well thank God she on east coast and u down south....i don't have drama in my personal life..just here at work!and thats enuf!i have a low tolerance for BS and others drama!