Is she being bullied? That's usually what happens when kids are bullied.
Take her to see a mental health professional. She is exhibiting classic symptoms of Separation Anxiety (school refusal). It is an anxiety disorder that can be treated very successfully with a little professional intervention (take her to see a child psychologist and they will map out a strategy for you). You are doing nothing wrong - it is a recognized anxiety disorder that isn't uncommon in children with certain temperments. Good luck to you!
we know 100% she doesent have a bullying issue we made sure. thankyou for your time. she is very stressing us out. she is still refusing to go to school, i half to go to a meeting with the cool conserning her absents
I would think you should find out why she doesn't want to go to school. Maybe there is a bullying issue or something else going on that would make her afraid of going to school. I know I had that problem as a child and my mother spoke to the school guidance counselor and it stopped. As well there may be some other factors creating emotional dependence. I would suggest taking her to a child psychologist as well. There is a specific forum to discuss child behavior issues more in detail as there might be very specific issues going on rather than just anxiety disorder but you should speak to both a child psychologist and as well as your child directly to find out exactly what is going and then better suggestions could be made on how to help it.