BTW- I love the question! It's one I try 'not' to think about as it can bring us down. But I love the question as it also brings to the forefront what is important to us.
For instance after sending this first post I thought 'Yes, but first and formost I wish my ministry could be back were it used to be.'
CM takes too much out us in just 'trying to feel better'. Perhaps taking the time to focus on what matters to us is a good thing. Maybe it will even help us to better focus on improving those things in our lives. So, thanks for the question!
CW
Pamper my wife beyond belief! Even though at times her responses have not been the 'kind' things she intended. She has done everything in her power to support and try to care for me when need be. I want to care for her and spoil her rotten, if that were possible.
My kids, they need to see Dad doing the things we used to do. They need to see dad wrestle with them, go fishing and hiking. I won't spoil them as it isn't good for them long term but yeah once we divorce CM for good they'll see the Dad, or daddy as my adult children call me, taking care of them.
CW
i would go to college have a family(eventually lol) play soccer untill i could no longer stand i would work for as many hours as i could get i would paint and draw pictures if my hands would work again i would scream from the top of a mountain i climed i would laugh so hard i peed myself. there is alot i would do and wish i could do
molly
I also would scrub all my floors, lift weights, go out and dance til dawn.
I would clim the gourgeous mountain I see from my bedroom window, I would clean my house to, I would next year make a very big garden, and I would go skiing at our local ski resort. I would also be entertaining with friends and family.
I would make better memories for my grandchildren, camp in the back yard, go for long hikes, do summer sauce. They thing's we take for granted. Now would appreciate doing.
I would take my children to six flags & ride all day long! I would clean my house so good it wouldnt be a spot anywhere! Then I would eat till i couldnt eat anymore. Then go play some basketball & run a few laps around the track.
Great post...I would dive into a swimming pool! Lift weights until my muscles burned(wouldn't take long LOL), go for a bike ride with my kids, go hiking up a mountain, lace up my roller skates and go to speed skating practice, I miss skating so much,