My 9yearold daughter

[helpk]

My daughter spends every weekend with me. She gets very angry and cries randamly sometimes for no reason. She also tells me I don't Love her or care about her, I just care about her sister (which is younger and from another mother). Her sister lives with me full time. I've tried all kinds of discipline, even just trying to Love her or do special things with her, but she just keeps slipping away. Her mother just wants to put her on medication, but I do not. She dos'nt need it, she just needs understanding. Please help me. I Love her so much! She is nine years old and her sister is five. Her mom is very angry and verbale, so is her grandma. The abuse and anger is starting to effect her mentaly. Like I said really need help.

[Noda]

How about getting custody?  Of course you can see why she thinks you love only your other daughter who lives with you...put yourself in the shoes of a 9 year old.  Why does she get to live with you and I don't?

[jdtm]

Her mother just wants to put her on medication,
abuse and anger is starting to effect her mentaly


Explain please.  Has your daughter been diagnosed with a mental health issue?  We need more information in order  to help you.