Also it very hard to know if kids at that age really care about consequences. Some really smart kids of that age have already learned that to seem like they dont care, really messes up the adult. Other kids are sure why they are being punished because they really aren't aware of what they did. Some kids just don't express emotions. The list goes on.
Just like at home, the teacher needs to be consistent.
sometimes they are just immature and I personally think a lot of boys act impulsively not really thinking of consequences. My son does this I know and then I will ask him why, he will say "I don't know". I think they just need to move more and be mroe active. It's tough.
Well, does he get enough physical activity before and after preschool? Some kids need more activity to be able to sit and focas. What methods do they use to redirect him?