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[nooreman2002]

doctor please i need your advice and your help . i wasat my son's school today , i met all his teachers and they're all mad of him , they're all upset of his violence with his friends . they even threatened to let him out of school if he continued this way . he's playing football and swimming 3 days week . i don't know why he's doing this? they told me maybe he's jealous of his sister . another told me that he seems angry . but of what ? alot of studying? we all study and have alot to do it's not just him . it's MEE who's angry now because his teachers just don't accept his behaviour they want me solve whole alone , they just explore in my face and left me ... i talked to him alot and showed him that violence and bad behaviour will upset his teachers and friends but he didn't listen ..what can i do his behaviour is getting worst ?

[margypops]

Could he be upset about something children do act out when something or someone has upset them .You say the teachers are upet with the violence and his friends , perhaps check out further what is happening with the friends'When he is bad , be consistant as it sends mixed messages and the little treasures will take advantage Lol good luck

[nooreman2002]

hi margypops , my sun is 7 years,9 month . thank you for your advice , i some times stop some privileges but unfortunetly  i don't stick to it . and i'll try to talk more and more with him , hope he could take it seriously and stop all this violence .

[margypops]

hi nooreman2002 How old is your son ?I would consider, depending on his age ,stopping privileges he has, TV or computer, favorite sport/game ,and mean it each time he is mean he gets to lose them, I do also think school should use some similar method they are in charge when he is there, but ultimately its you has to stop the behavior.Explain to him what is going to happen each time he is fighting anyone and it is his fault, that is the other thing make sure it is him and no bullying going on .Good luck