Help! 3 possible fathers.. yes I know what your thinking

[Jpike31]

Hi you all.. yes I know.. the title says it all! I am extremely ashamed about this situation I have put myself in but I SERIOUSLY need some guidance and advise from outsiders who have no connection to this situation... any honest input would be so greatly appreciated. The only "semi positive" thing about this situation is that 2 of the guys I have known for years. All 3 are wonderful people that come from great families as well.

Okay, I found out I am pregnant. The first day of my last period was on August 12, 2015.  Here is out how it pans out :/

August 21st- Guy #1 (came inside me)
August 23rd- Guy #2 (came inside me)
August 28th- Guy #1 (PULLED OUT- DID NOT *** INSIDE ME)
August 28th- Guy #3 (came inside me)
August 29th- OVULATION!?!?!

I had EXTREME one sided pain (my doctor states that she is 99.999 percent sure this was ovulation, my periods were longer than 28 days) on August 29th...

From your opinions, any idea who the father COULD possibly be? I know this is a messy horrible situation, all completely self inflicted. All I am asking for is your input on who you think it could be. I have no one else to talk to about this and would sincerely appreciate any input on your thoughts.

Just an FYI I plan on getting a prenatal paternity test done through DDC at 9 weeks, but in the meantime I am just trying to figure this whole mess out.

Thank you for your time

[teenmomma1998]

Congrats hope yuh can Injoy yur pregnancy at last having some peace of mind knowing who's the dad

[PreguntonaPensativa]

Yay!:)

[stephymarieee]

im happy it all worked out and the worry can at least be put too ease a little.
Thank you for the update.
You said your gonna be testing again are you gonna do the DDC non invasive again with the potential father ? Or do you mean after birth ..?

[Jpike31]

Hi guys! I feel like alot of people do not come on here and give an update... well the verdict is in! I tested guy #1 and guy #2 and BOTH were excluded as potential fathers. The people at the DDC said they would not exclude them if there was even a 1% chance of them possibly being the father. So that makes it guy #3... as i was wishing for. He still wants to get the test done so we are going to do that but atleast going into his test I can completely feel confident that it will show he is the father.

Just wanted to let you all know!!!

[AnnieBrooke]

Why is it time to tell him, when you can't test yet?  Since the 29th or 30th does not rule out guy #1, I would not tell anyone weeks in advance, unless you like ruining people's peaceful night's sleep for weeks.  There is nothing that can be done to know for sure until you are at the date where the DDC will do the test.  You are ready to write off someone who had "pulled out," but like the poster above, I also know someone who got pregnant using that so-called method.  Please test with guy 1 and guy 3, and especially please, if you care about them at all, don't tell them so far in advance.  

[Jpike31]

Hi guys,

Just a quick update. I went to get my ultrasound today. My doctor measured in two different ways and is 95% confident that the date I ovulated on was the 29th or 30th. She strongly believes still (90% sure) that guy # 3 is the dad. I am 5 weeks 6 days by both of her measurements.

Now its time to break the news to him. I am not sure how this is going to go. I think I am just going to test #3 first and then go from there.

This is so scary!!