Needing some advice.. dont know what to do!!

[MBabyRose14]

I am 21 years old and just found out I am pregnant with my second child. I havent been to the doctor yet but this app estimates me to be about 4 weeks . My first born will be one next month and I'm kind of worried about having two small children at such a young age. Especially since I am a single mother. I am not with my sons father but this baby could be his. Buuut it could also be by a guy I have been dating for almost 2 months

[AnnieBrooke]

Well, sweetheart, get the ultrasound.  If your cycle length is even at 31 days every month, (not sometimes 29 and sometimes 31 and sometimes 33 for an average of 31), anyway if it is always 31 days that suggests you ovulated around the 10th.  If so, guy #2 is likelier than guy #1.  But you really need the ultrasound to try to rule one or the other out.

[MBabyRose14]

First day of my last period: October 24th
Sex with #1: October 30th
Sex with #2: November 7th
Negative test on:November 13th
Positive test on:November 24th
Average length of my cycles: 31 days

[MBabyRose14]

But if i am already almost 5 weeks shouldn't it be #1 bc i only had sex with #2 3 weeks ago?

[Kjens12]

It sounds to me like the father is most likely guy number two. It never hurts to do a test to be sure though. Good luck!

[BinaBops]

I think the father of the child is the one who sticks around and helps you raise your babies, including your first born. Many men have fathered children and have walked away, a real father is the guy who will hold your hand throughout the pregnancy and raise the child as their own, even if it is not.
Having 2 children closer together can be a handful, but maternal instinct will take over abdominal I'm sure you will more than cope.
As for deciphering who the father is, honesty may be the best policy. Let them both know that it could be them, then let them decide whether they want to find out if it's them or not. Add long add your baby has you then all will be okay

[MBabyRose14]

I will thank you so much, i feel so much better! (: