Needing some advice.. dont know what to do!!

[MBabyRose14]

I am 21 years old and just found out I am pregnant with my second child. I havent been to the doctor yet but this app estimates me to be about 4 weeks . My first born will be one next month and I'm kind of worried about having two small children at such a young age. Especially since I am a single mother. I am not with my sons father but this baby could be his. Buuut it could also be by a guy I have been dating for almost 2 months

[MBabyRose14]

But if i am already almost 5 weeks shouldn't it be #1 bc i only had sex with #2 3 weeks ago?

[Kjens12]

It sounds to me like the father is most likely guy number two. It never hurts to do a test to be sure though. Good luck!

[BinaBops]

I think the father of the child is the one who sticks around and helps you raise your babies, including your first born. Many men have fathered children and have walked away, a real father is the guy who will hold your hand throughout the pregnancy and raise the child as their own, even if it is not.
Having 2 children closer together can be a handful, but maternal instinct will take over abdominal I'm sure you will more than cope.
As for deciphering who the father is, honesty may be the best policy. Let them both know that it could be them, then let them decide whether they want to find out if it's them or not. Add long add your baby has you then all will be okay

[MBabyRose14]

I will thank you so much, i feel so much better! (:

[hailere]

Not knowing who the father is isn't the end of the world, you can always wait until the baby is here to find out. You're single and should be ashamed of having sex with more than one person. At least you know who the 2 possibilities are and when you had sex with them, a lot of women don't even know that. Keep your head up and focus on the bundle of joy you already have and the one growing inside of you. Best of luck :)

[MBabyRose14]

Thanks for your kind words ladies. I am very scared but i know i have the support around me i need to make it through this. I just feel disappointed in myself bc I am not sure who the father is