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Sex with two guys a month apart

I had protected sex on Nov 17, 2022. I took a plan b after and my period came on Dec 1, 2022. I then had unprotected sex a month later with a different guy on Dec 21, 2022 and took a plan b. I missed my period in Jan 2023. I went to the doctor on Feb 4, 2023 and was told I am 8 weeks pregnant. I am just not sure who is the father.
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The second guy. The doctor would never have told you that you were only 8 weeks along if the father was the first guy. Did you have an ultrasound, or was the doctor just counting on a little cardboard wheel from your last period?

One thing your story prompts me to mention is that (in case you don't know), Plan B is intended to be taken only rarely, like once in two or three years. It's an "emergency" contraceptive for a reason -- it only works 7 times out of 8, and is also not good for you. Taking it every month would be a bad idea. After you have the baby, you're much better off getting onto a reliable form of b.c. like the Pill.

Anyway, the weeks count the doctor gave you suggests you got pregnant on or around December 24. That is so much later than when you had sex with Guy #1 that it seems puzzling that you are even wondering about the first guy. Has someone been saying something to you that makes you worry?
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Yes the doctor did an ultrasound. I am thinking of going on the pill but it’s the side effects that are concern for me.
And no, no one has said anything to me I was just worried about it. But thanks for your response.
The side effects of the big hormone loads involved with the morning-after pill are much more to be concerned about than the side effects of being on the pill. Talk to your doctor.
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