help!

[Jessicadear]

So...i was engaged and found out i am pregnant a month after we broke up...thing is that i had sex with my black friend like a week after my ex and i broke up...so im not 100% on who the daddy is until i have my son...here is the problem...my (over protective) brother is very racict...well alot of my family is but i.live at home with my mom and brother..i havent told anyone besides my friend that he could be the father.. im so scared to tell anyone! Has anyone else gone thru a race issue like this?

[AnnieBrooke]

I would go with the doctor's timeline if he understood that you were asking about the conception date.  If you want, you can post here the estimated due date you got from your very first ultrasound and how early the ultrasound was in the pregnancy, and we can check it.  But overall if you are asking your doctor when you conceived, and if he understands that is what you are asking (just asking how far "along" you are won't do, since the doctor will count with your first day of your last period unless you specify you want to know about conception), what the doc says should be right.

[jennyr1991]

Dont worry abt ur family they will get over it if it does turn out mixed  ..be excited ur going to have a beautiful baby

[Jessicadear]

Im 22 weeks today, according to my drs timeline my ex is the daddy but according to this timeline my friend is...i have told a couple coworkers and they dont seem to think its a big deal but im so scared to tell anyone who could get back to my family...im not even really excited most of the time because im scared that if my son does come out mixed race that my brother and a bunch of other family will turn their backs on me

[BabyTailyn]

If it is once the baby is born,, he'll probably fall in love because no matter what children are innocent && he is the uncle.

[Aubree23]

Have you shared that with your friend?

[Kelseymichelle]

Figure out how many weeks you are, and then you can figure out about what day you concieved. I have a very racist brother as well...and its funny because his whole child hood he loved rap music and had friends of all races. Now he's all country and racist it's disgusting. If it is a mixed baby, don't let anyone get you down! It will be just as beautiful and wonderful as any other baby out there. They will learn you can't discriminate once they see how perfect that baby is!

[jennyr1991]

Figure out when the baby was consived